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eternal...Tze Quanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02241253984010210739noreply@blogger.comBlogger51125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3394304255430657120.post-55523845079252877692012-09-01T15:03:00.000+08:002012-09-01T15:09:01.969+08:00Because You Matter<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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<span style="line-height: 115%;">I have wanted to blog for ages, but every time I open my laptop something more important (like studying) will come up. Or I'm too tired to think of something to write about after doing other thing (like studying). Besides, I don’t really have much to write about because all my time is taken up by other things (like studying).</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;">The thing about rat races is, even if you win the race, you’re still a rat.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;">In our chase to be known, we forget what it is we want to be known for. What legacy will you leave behind? How will you be remembered in the end? Mother Theresa was prominent, but so was Hitler. <o:p></o:p></span><br />
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<span style="font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;">And to be that, you need to have a dream. Because anything that is real began with a dream. A passion for some change that you wish to see. That becomes your driving force, it’s not just the goal of succeeding on personal terms, it’s the vision that something can be done about the status quo. Remember, evil triumphs only when good people do nothing.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;">Martin Luther King Jr was assassinated and he never got to see the first black President of USA. But this was a man who changed history, who got off the rat race onto a higher calling. Who wasn’t afraid to dream.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;">I may be only one, but I am still one. And because I am one, I will not refuse to do the one thing I can do.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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Tze Quanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02241253984010210739noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3394304255430657120.post-25852341284967930962012-03-05T11:51:00.014+08:002012-03-05T13:11:02.682+08:00I Shouldn't Have to Defend Myself<div style="text-align: left; "><span style="font-size: 100%; text-align: left; "><p>It's been ages since I've written anything but I've good reason to do so today.</p></span></div><div style="text-align: left; "><span style="font-size: 100%; text-align: left; ">
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</span></div><div style="text-align: left; "><span><span style="font-size: 100%; text-align: left; "></span><p><span style="font-size: 100%; text-align: left; ">Much has happened over the first few months of the ye</span><span style="font-size: 100%; ">ar. But let's have a quick recap shall we?</span></p></span></div><div style="text-align: left; "><span style="font-size: 100%; "><span style="font-size: 100%; ">
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</div><div><span><p>So who says bumming is easy? Haha!</p><p></p></span></div></div><div><p></p><p><span>I guess it's pretty obvious that this blog's writer is leaving and soon. I'm flying off the India in less than 2 months to do what I've always wanted to do - be a doctor.</span></p><p></p></div><div><p></p><p><span><span>Of course this decision has been questioned, debated, challenged and </span><span>mocked even. I often wonder why it's met with such hostility but then again, every decision one makes </span><span>will always be second </span><span>guessed by everyone else.</span></span></p><p></p><p></p><p><span>The first admonishment I always receive is, <b><span><span>WHY INDIA</span>?</span></b></span></p><div><div></div></div></div><div><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 388px; height: 400px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh3E_4aUjn7ve_EgVlDAVHYhDf4P1nMNUNnx1M5Frzyp3lZBweMuzC5WPRd33KqU1VxVjdK1bB_u5-m2JkfLFaQjtJZ9Edsr56inHAtWulNtRU_q_YiVKzu69VeIiEX7TFJdINMtTbxF2u4/s400/Face+Problem.png" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5716258471598392530" /><div><div style="text-align: left;"><span><p></p></span></div><p></p></div><div><span></span></div><p><b><span> WHY NOT INDIA?</span></b></p></div><div><p><span> Because it's dirty? Because it's a third world country? Because buried deep inside you is the belief that white equals superior? And being dark equals inferiority?</span></p></div><div><p></p></div><div><p><span> Shame on you.</span></p></div><div><p><span> I remember I told God that my dream to be a doctor is in His hands and that I believe He will send me wherever He knows I'll be the best doctor I can be. And He sent me to India. And no matter the naysayers and gloom doom prophets, you cannot deny that the clinical training there is the best in the world. And if there are prospective medical students not comfortable with the dirt and grime of the poor, I say, don't be a doctor. Our priority should first and foremost be them, because they need us most.</span></p><p></p></div><div><p><span> The second one is, <b><span>WHY DID YOU TAKE UP THE SCHOLARSHIP?</span></b></span></p></div><div><img src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEid7GSe5DfjsJnWiqFDXAr40klmfHDX5WJ_DdlwOsAvXBscG2BKjtipL0Nq4sd5GP8lCEFZCSHez5rM3iJMgn-2w38OPMSvZPWiUB7YO5ZH9GwcnhJ7aXIl1rgttHXMXQxLN6ZGrU_48TTz/s400/Challenge_accepted_RE_Red_pancake_s400x300_128675_580_RE_Longest_Post_on_Sharenator_s400x300_1947941_Draw_a_hamburger_with_your_eyes_closed-s400x300-278987-580.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5716270218620171666" style="display: block; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: auto; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: auto; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 400px; height: 300px; " /></div><div><p><span> To that I say, <span><b><span>BECAUSE I CAN</span></b>.</span> My scholarship is a gift from God, something I've prayed hard about since I was in high school. I've worked hard for it, cried hard when I didn't manage to get it the first time, praised God when He gave it later, and guess what? I continued working hard. I didn't take it and squandered the opportunity away. I like to believe I had lived up to the expectations my sponsors have and God's call to be excellent.</span></p><p></p></div><div><p><span> And for those who have came up to me and said, "Oh, I don't want this scholarship," let me ask you, "Do you even qualify for it?" Don't belittle us who have worked hard and long to be able to be called a JPA scholar. We shouldn't have to defend ourselves for accepting a scholarship that's a tremendous blessing from God.</span></p></div><div><p></p></div><div><p><span> And the best one, <b><span>DO YOU WANT TO PAY OFF YOUR BOND?</span></b></span></p><div><div><img src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhWWF9kQb2TdKxcyM9d9ciMs2ecTiJbwwDv_vFFQnah0_5b6vsUZ93P-gsXuddDRcDWJ69M_94kdMXBWZ3zm_-AyO2b5p38M39MtXjhc4GBtyXdMMXWZ9h4sqTcloC8PcEa_fCGhl0ija5M/s400/1279052383758.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5716271245327210354" style="display: block; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: auto; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: auto; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 400px; height: 347px; " /></div></div></div><div><span><div><p></p></div></span></div><div><span><p> This is just priceless. I can understand sometimes why doctors keep discouraging youngsters from following in their footsteps. It's this money-minded mentality that being a doctor equals BIG BUCKS FAST. As a JPA scholar, I am bonded to the NATION for 10 years of service. Notice nation is in caps. And who in the nation needs the medical service the most? Again I return to the aforementioned point, the poor. And they will be found in the government hospitals. If you don't intend to serve the poor, don't be a doctor.</p></span></div><div><span><p> Of course, the subtext behind the question is,<span> <b><span>DON'T YOU WANT TO LEAVE THIS COUNTRY?</span></b></span></p></span></div><div><span><img src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEguLewCd-tvdF2T5zHyEIWCtqH4Ax9-IgSRAPFMiwk2luRIX4N3tIbMjTC4sO1rapVGl-6MquriBfMEtBlzwjVNveJyuVVuFv9C3ft3JIpCE5fcCefzHUeEN1rgEmfGuf4apUMilIrQbp59/s400/no-meme-rage-face.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5716271751577545618" style="display: block; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: auto; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: auto; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 400px; height: 341px; " /></span></div><div><span><p> <span><b><span>NO, I DON'T</span></b>.</span> I was born here, I know no other place to call home. As much as I know there a sick people outside, there are sick people right on our doorstep too. And if we all run away, who will take care of them? I have no problem with the 10 year bond because I have no intention of serving anywhere else.</p></span></div><div><span><p> In all honesty, I shouldn't have to defend myself for the decision to go to India to study medicine under a scholarship from JPA. I am grateful that God has given me this wonderful privilege to do what I always wanted to do, without putting a burden on my parents.</p></span></div><div><p><span>I hope this post will encourage anyone who has had similar decisions questioned. <i><span>Remember, the scholarship is a gift, see it as such and keep working hard because you owe it to God</span></i>. </span></p></div><div style="font-family: Georgia, serif; "><span style="font-family: Georgia, serif; "> </span></div>Tze Quanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02241253984010210739noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3394304255430657120.post-82753808234554467352011-03-20T20:42:00.004+08:002011-03-20T21:14:26.183+08:00Materialism - When Your Possessions Posses You<div style="text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span" ><u>
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</div><img src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg3c-5piL9KeH1cdNGP1LyD-q7ARuFWOwMpPVb2-QG0Frq1HxhxC_XUyhPvp9u7HgGjBT0evMbksdGqo6YZaZqBCcX1ktmNe1BjtQgR6pziYiuZdrAZ-V9niEYQIoPB-Mtf2TI0uz8CrdSM/s400/I_Want_More.gif" style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 280px;" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5586147327346691922" /><i><p>‘Money, money, money; must be funny, in a </i><i>rich</i><i>’s man’s world.</p></i><p><i><p>Money, money, money; always sunny, in a ric</i><i>h’s man’s world.’</p></i></p><p></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-indent:36.0pt"></p><p><p>Take this scenario. <span class="apple-style-span"><span style="color:black">You buy furniture. You t</span></span>ell yourself, this is the last sofa I will ever need in my life. Buy the sofa, then for a couple years you're satisfied that no matter what goes wrong, at least you've got your sofa issue handled. Then the right set of dishes. Then the perfect bed. The drapes. The rug. Then you're trapped in your lovely nest, and the things you used to own, now they own you.</p></p><p></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-indent:36.0pt"></p><p><p>Sounds familiar?</p></p><img src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiyMC7R2x2uytWtk8AufCH3R7xeSXVAcu7x4nb5t3CjtzgZmNzhiLp1pkpuINHiH4mXt602qLYZ5u5qIWVhgK460COIMUmT6TBifgBj5y69TWcxrbMPMbsaiW2ozBxW_2H3_l8iT0zQCCfN/s400/50_cartoon_hip_hop_large.gif" style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 237px; height: 377px;" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5586146465955460450" /><p><b><span class="Apple-style-span" ><p>Materialism – When Your Posses</span></b><b><span class="Apple-style-span" >sions Possess You.</p></span></b></p><p></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span style="mso-tab-count:1"> </span></p><p><p>It’s a fact that money makes the world go round. Those who deny probably have too much of it to be able to afford to say otherwise. However, what we must realise is that money is not the root of all evil. No, it is the LOVE of money that is the root of all evil. There is nothing wrong with striving to reach the top of the corporate level, nothing wrong with spending your hard earned cash on a new Lamborghini, nothing wrong with saving for that dream vacation to the Caribbean.<span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span>But there is something very wrong when all you can think of after getting the new Ipad 2 is, ‘When will I get the Ipad AYEVANTMOUR??!’</p></p><img src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgi7DQsKD-CTOsysuIV4MwjlvouYtrDJnYxXHzgO2zxYN-Df92wK7Dl_bvgIvJsT3kKlwr2oV_XSkkg1UZmRST5rqM6t9VxdA1zJCaSPgQnRbED5ENjFJzOsGXtHUc4_NSVt1QE2tyihRZK/s400/0069.jpg" style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 312px;" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5586146473418387298" /><p><p>How then do we realise that we have sunk into materialism? How then do we realise we have entered a meaningless rat race to outbid each other in an attempt to obtain more, more, more? Here’s a simple checklist. When you are materialistic, you end up being selfish, self-centered and self-less.</p></p><img src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgX_fsuoETLrpjIwlggSakxNzohGAUQTd6Hwy6EcWzi_aMQGGZ_DyYrD3TudJvRfmXTotIcIbhkwToe97NGw0fsJZjOC4j5fmq98dMg6ugB2yT5B3qh974ubJTF-abOrMdHuGqssU8wEm2A/s400/359---May-11---May-17%252C-2008%252C-fair-share.png" style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 279px; height: 400px;" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5586146473187709010" /><p><p>The problem with materialism is that it affects us as an individual. <span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span>We degrade ourselves into selfish beings that can only see things for ourselves. Yes, anything we strive to own we want to own to increase our satisfaction. Any economist will tell you that. They would also go on to say that happiness is reality divided by expectations. To increase happiness, either improve your reality or decrease your expectations. Materialistic people seek to improve their reality by surrounding themselves with more. They are quick to fall in love with a certain new item only to be quicker to fall out of love with it once it is theirs. Whatever they do, they seek only for individual contentment. For them, the chase is better than the prize. <span class="apple-style-span"><span style="color:black">The people recognize themselves in their commodities; they find their soul in their automobile, hi-fi set, split-level ho</span></span>me, kitchen equipment. Take this analogy to illustrate the point.</p> </p><p><p>A brand-conscious, pompous, loaded lawyer just finished work and was headed downtown. It’s a dodgy area with some unsavoury characters but that’s where the night life begins. As he steps out of the car, a horrific accident occurs as a drunk driver rams into the bumper of his brand new Mercs just as he was about to close the door. It was bloody. The police and the paramedics were alerted and they rushed to the scene. The lawyer was absolutely lived. He demanded to file a lawsuit against the driver. The constable taking his statement said, ‘Calm down sir, can’t you see that you’ve lost your arm??’ The lawyer yelled, ‘HOLY COW THAT IDIOT TOOK MY ROLEX!’ We can laugh, but a materialistic person can forget about everything else that besides their possessions which are their pride and joy. They become so inward looking that they fail to see anyone else around them which brings us to the next problem.</p></p><img src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEigQBUpnix02mfC5mwApR_S6CSz_ZpKtdtgHZA3I8rm9a8RYKKq1XfZDcDJT4TqQSA5cA6T_mGGTIWdNF3zm0lXia9Msh1MYxO2RqPShehotrjJWHcaXjCmyr-ripm_xosY3s8JMsX4zdOH/s400/2010-05-17.gif" style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 240px; height: 320px;" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5586146476099239714" /><p><p>Materialism breeds self-centredness. Self-centredness is not to be confused with selfishness. While selfishness means only looking out for individual concerns, self-centredness in this context refers to the failure to notice people as people. Materialistic people often have problems with interpersonal relationships. They have a tendency to only value things on how much they’re worth. This would be largely because they themselves base their value on how much they own. To them, those with more will garner more respect compared to those with less. In monetary terms of course.<span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span>They fail to be able to look past the outer layer of possessions and connect to another person, soul to soul.</p></p><img src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiVhqFck1uZj8UFKXlbupVAa2P4sp_i4g5UMnPYtWzBqYS_-ZY3whmbkmAs-ditpzy4J7Rvb0MgLk-TPaAHK2tgkXXp_o05JjvlXGJTkJfSIHZyuzmOxjWi4e1jhJwhWeYwmAkv8K7w5NIR/s400/money_418935.jpg" style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 386px; height: 400px;" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5586147327250092690" /><p></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-indent:36.0pt"></p><p><p>Take for example Mother from Memoirs of a Geisha. ‘When she walked down the street, her mind was probably working like an abacus: “Oh, there’s little Yukiyo, whose stupidity cost her poor older sister nearly a hundred yen last year! And here comes Ichimitsu, who must be very pleased at the payments her new <i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal">danna </i>is making”. If Mother were to walk alongside the Shirakawa Stream on a lovely spring day, when you could almost see beauty itself dripping into the water from the tendrils of the cherry trees, she probably wouldn’t even notice any of it – unless ... I don’t know ... she had a plan to make money from selling the trees, or some such thing’. People aren’t looked as people but merely owners. Materialism is like a boulder that prevents them from real meaningful communication, one of the most beautiful things in life.</p></p><p></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-indent:36.0pt"></p><p><p>At the end of the day, materialism blocks everything meaningful in life. To be self-less is not selfless. To be self-less is to lose your humanity. And it’s true that materialism will end reducing one into an automaton, somewhat akin to a safety deposit box. It hoards the things they deem valuable; the money, the gold. But inside that box, what they value most will not be able to grow into something more. <span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span>It gathers dust and all it while it can purchase a nice coffin to be buried in, it cannot buy the people who will mourned the emptiness you left behind. Materialistic people fear death because everything they hold dear here to is temporal. Anything that is physical will never last forever. They miss out on life because materialism is like rose-tinted glasses, unable to see the full brightness and beauty of the things around them. In Harry Potter terms, they’re like Muggles, unable to comprehend the sheer magic of Life.</p></p><p></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span style="mso-tab-count:1"> </span></p><p><p>We all want things. There is nothing wrong with life. But let’s not forget that there is more to life than material possessions. Have you wondered why the people with the least are often the most content? They discovered the secret; <span class="apple-style-span"><span style="color:black">there must be more to life than having everything. They are happy living life, growing old, satisfied with their lot. To quote a conversation from Tuesdays with Morrie, Mitch Albom tells his professor Morrie, ‘Why do people always say “Oh, if I were young again.” You never hear people say, “I wish I was sixty five.” Morrie smiles. “You know what that reflects? Unsatisfied lives. Unfulfilled lives. Lives that haven’t found meaning. Because if you’ve found the meaning in your life, you don’t want to go back. You want to go forward. You want to see more, do more. You can’t wait until sixty-five.”</p></span></span></p><o:p></o:p><p></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span class="apple-style-span"><span style="color:black"><span style="mso-tab-count:1"> </span></span></span></p><p><p>We are made to enjoy God’s greatest gift – Life. Don’t throw it away chasing meaningless tangibles. <i><b><span class="Apple-style-span" >After all, the best thing in life aren’t things.</p></span></b></i></p><img src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgAL37tZbLPssiANhflLkWhi10_haqAN3Sv0cuXEhwxR71Z-x0IWZRRLICr3D7D4pHx9GIaxLfqtlTxVvq1C8et0Y09J8Zl3fiAHNRbDWmPG8uyoXOCkOTqf1AqzPmU3LIg4X2F2LXp0ii-/s400/3817817466_202fe4f774.jpg" style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 350px; height: 400px;" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5586146484533555170" /><p></p>Tze Quanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02241253984010210739noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3394304255430657120.post-26675935401415661412010-12-31T11:10:00.006+08:002011-01-01T11:01:27.163+08:00Dedicated to You, Yes, You<p class="MsoNormal"></p><p>Yeah, it’s the end of the year again and considering one of my New Year’s resolution is to blog more frequently, I should start now and make good on it.</p><p></p> <p class="MsoNormal"></p><p>2010 has been one crazy year for me. It has been full of ups and downs, twists and turns but looking back, it happened the way it did for a reason.</p><p></p> <p class="MsoNormal"></p><p>I could write this whole post about the amazing things which have happened this year. God has really been so good to me, although I know I do not deserve it at all. But as I was thinking for the whole night, what made 2010 special was all the people God brought into my life. There were new ones, there were old ones, there were old ones made new and new ones made old.<span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span>It’s pretty lengthy, so do look for your name in here. For all of you who walked into my heart this year and left footprints, this is for you.</p><p></p> <p class="MsoNormal" align="center" style="text-align: center;"><b></b></p><p style="text-align: center;"><b>5 Budians ‘09</b></p><p></p> <p class="MsoNormal"></p><p>We’ve left school a year ago but to me, you were always, always close to my heart. I’ve never had such amazing classmates who’ve became such dear friends to me at the same time. I’ve really missed all of you and for all the times we had together. And I’m so glad that whenever we get to meet up, it feels as comfortable as always. With you guys, I could let my guard down and just be who I am. Thank you for reminding me who Tze Quan is. =) Thank you for reminding me not to change because I am loved just the way I am. I am forever grateful that no matter what happened throughout the year as we went our separate ways, we could always come back and it would be like we never left. <span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span>‘Not everyone is prominent, but everyone is significant’. With you all, I knew I counted for something and that I had a group of people who will always be there for me. Thank you Sam, Puteri, Hui Ting, Sarah-Ann, Sarah Liau, Pei Qi, Jian Shen, Aaron, De Ming, Nick, Ling Ben, Syn, Suba, Yan Chi <span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span>and everyone of you 5 Budians who were there for me when I needed reminding of who I am. And Sarah-Ann, I appreciate every one of your long texts you sent me during NS. =)</p><p></p> <p class="MsoNormal" align="center" style="text-align: center;"><b></b></p><p style="text-align: center;"><b>Freak and Ass</b></p><p></p> <p class="MsoNormal"></p><p>I told you two before that if my year was made into a TV series, you two would probably only make guest star appearances despite the huge role you’ve played in my year. Thank you for always, always being my sisters to laugh with me and lend me your shoulders when I needed a cry. Being with you two again reminded me of who I was, that I didn’t need anyone else to make me feel like I matter. I had the both of you to double the joy and half the sorrow. I miss you two very very much but I am eternally thankful that even though we’re apart, we’re never really apart. After all, true friendship is not about being inseparable, it’s about being separated but nothing changes. We’ll prove those who say that high school friendship ends in college wrong. I may not have biological sisters, but I have you and that’s the very best God has given me. I hope we’ll last and that I was and will be a rock for both of you to rely on as well. I love you two very much. =)</p><p></p> <p class="MsoNormal" align="center" style="text-align: center;"><b></b></p><p style="text-align: center;"><b>NS friends</b></p><p></p> <p class="MsoNormal"></p><p>T.R.A.G. =) I always thank God for NS because I met you three, proving that when He sends us to a test, He also gives us the means to ace it. I had the three of you to keep me accountable and, ‘It well may be that we will never meet again in this lifetime, so let me say before we part, so much of me, is what I learned from you, you’ll be with me, like a handprint on my heart’. De Ming you deserve special mention because you were here too. =) It would’ve been even harder without your wisdom handling all those company disunity problems. Selva you too. Thank you for helping me to cope with it during NS. I’m glad we had NS because I finally got to know you. I’m very touched and I’ll do my very best to live up to your expectations. I won’t let you down! ZHENG LING! WOMAN! Good thing we didn’t break the bed with you hopping on it every night to talk, talk, talk until we oversleep the next morning and can’t get up for PT. I got to learn just how amazing you are and no regrets going NS at all because how else would I have found someone like you? =) Kieran, Emman, Chong, <span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span>Kah Fong, Sabob, Soon, Baby Soon ( =P ), Tall Shaun, Short Sean, Black Nic, White Nic (HAHAHAHAHAHA), Tommy, Silas and everyone else from CF too. And my dormmates! Who says race is a boundary? RUBBISH. BOSS! Ni utk u. Bila I dengar balik penjelasan u pasal baju pt u yg basah, selalu tergelak cam org giler ajer. =P Dengar lagu kantoi pun camtu. Aduh la boss. =P Bangga I tau bila u kata I kawan cina u yg pertama. I rindu u sgt sgt sgt dan I janji takkan lupa u sampai bila-bila. Kalau dtg sini telefon tau?</p><p></p> <p class="MsoNormal" align="center" style="text-align: center;"><b></b></p><p style="text-align: center;"><b>Form 6 =)</b></p><p></p> <p class="MsoNormal"></p><p>You all showed me that you don’t need years to have such chemistry and rich friendships. It can happen anywhere, anytime and in no time at all. Though I only had the opportunity to be with you all for a short month and a half, I already gained so much from all of you. Shiels, from the very first day I sat behind you, we knew we were going to be friends. It doesn’t only happen in books! Soo Yin, I admire your sporting-ness and your initiative. Plus I like the way you talk. HAHA! Xiao Xi, for your forth willingness to share your life story and the reason behind the dream of being a doctor, thank you. Wei Wen you blur blur girl. =) But when we’re all together, there’s always laughter with you around. OON-HUI! We go waaaay back la woman. I know you’ll do great in Form 6. I never told you this before but I have always admired how reliable and trustworthy you are. DREE! To go back to the place where so many joyous memories are stored with one of my bestest friends in the world is just one of God’s miracles. =) MING RUI MING RUI MING RUI!!! You are undoubtedly one of the people I thank God the MOST for. Although we could only stay awhile, we both know there’s going to be a special bond between us, didn’t we? =) Thank you for the calls when we were both in new worlds and starting over AGAIN. Facebook predicted so let’s see it through ya hamster? Aaron! Gosh I miss you walking me home. Can you teach more guys to be gentlemen? The books very heavy lo... HAHA! Robyn a.k.a Penguin, thank you for giving me much laughter. I still can’t dance Sorry Sorry so that one you’ll probably have to teach me again yeh. =P I thank God I got to see you during the Worship Conference too. And you’re right, it reminded me too that I must treasure the friendship we have. Adrian, gosh, I’ve known you years. Haha! I’m glad we got to be proper classmates, if only for a little while. All the best you guys for STPM next year and Ming Rui for matric. We all get our 4A’s and do whatever we dream of doing, aite? =)</p><p></p> <p class="MsoNormal" align="center" style="text-align: center;"><b></b></p><p style="text-align: center;"><b>Church buddies</b></p><p></p> <p class="MsoNormal"></p><p>We all Budak Gereja kan? (Jon, Hanrick, this means church kiddos aite? =P ) Nicole, you are without question my longest and closest friend I have in church. For the times you called me while I was in NS, thank you. It meant very much to me to know I was still part of NSt even though physically I wasn’t ablt to be there. I always got your back, any time, in anything because I know you’ll be there for me as well. Kate, I hope next year will be a much better one because we have a lot to talk about, don’t we? Thank you for listening to that looooong story and you too, know that I’ll always be here to listen and I’ll never judge you for your decision. Rachel Rose! Thank you for taking over cell so willingly and so wonderfully. You are AWESOME woman. Plus, you actually dreamt I got the scholarship which was very very amazing. It’s a pity you had to leave for Tronoh just as we were getting to know each other better but I’m very happy and proud of you for your scholarship. =) Zara! I've watch you grow by leaps and bounds. I'm very proud of you. Debbie, you too. Thank you for really rising up and taking the challenge. You've been a tremendous blessing to me. For all my cell girls, again and again you inspire me to keep the faith and keep running the race. =) Aaron! My best friend! HAHA! For all the laughter and the tummy aches you gave me from it. And I’m very sorry about the water balloon. HAHAHAHA! You have been an amazing friend to me, and you were always there to listen when I needed to unload. And cheer me up because you always make me realise that there’s more to enjoy about life when there’re tears in my eyes because of laughter instead of sadness. =) Jon! You too! Your company is such a comfort to me, all the time. I really love your spirit and how you’re always so positive. It makes me optimistic as well.<span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span>I’m looking forward to us jamming soon. Thank you for being there for me too. I’ll treasure the moments we have left before you fly off. Hanrick, partner in crime? Haha! Thank you for understanding and it was good to have someone to share the dilemma with. You still owe me badass yo. I’ll be coming Couz more often next year. So save a seat for me ya? LEO! It’s been awesome serving with you, working with the album, being on for worship for main service. Just well, go easy on the potpourri next time ok? =) CALEB YOU MIA FELLA! You know I think you’re an amazing musician and jamming with you is always, always, always a joy. I learn a lot from you in the band and you’re another one of those people who will always put me in a good mood, no matter what. Shen! My sifu, thank you for giving me the opportunity to serve alongside you. Please teach me jazz chords. =) Keith kor, thank you for your wisdom and the advice. Thank you for looking out for me too. =) You’re always someone I look up to.<span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span>Ivan, thank you. For all the leaders and for Ps Dan and Auntie Ann, thank you for guiding me and being a part of a family I am so privileged to be in. All of you remind me that being in the family of God is the greatest gift He gave us. The friendship, the laughter, the moments we share show me over and over again then I can never leave the Kingdom of God. I love you all very much.</p><p></p> <p class="MsoNormal" align="center" style="text-align: center;"><b></b></p><p style="text-align: center;"><b>College mates</b></p><p></p> <p class="MsoNormal"></p><p>For my classmates, we got 6 more years together. =) Let’s make them count. Fiona, thank you for our many emo-talk sessions. Who knew the random drawing would end up in both of us being so similar in nature being roommates as well? Jane, I’m looking forward to all our classes especially with our first successful result-faking physics practical. =P I’m bringing food next time, I’m becoming hungry like you. HAHA! Yen Jing, for those midnight girl talk times, gosh, we all really can talk about ANYTHING don’t we? =P Wan Xin, wah you so responsible I also paiseh la beside you. Eldest sister hor, when we go India, I know who’ll be the one telling us to CLEAN OUR ROOMS. Haha! Hsiang Ling, I do hope I get to spend more time with you because you and Mummy will be leaving us sooner. Chien Wei, thank you for always helping me send me back. =) Both of us mia from house 2 but I think we still count as honorary members of the house right, right? (Be nice the rest of you. HAHA!) MUUUUMMMMYYY!!! You’re so lovable and I feel so comfortable around you. I failed during Tron but I will be back to try again! MUAHAHAHAHA! =P Though I heard you stayed awake for Despicable Me. HAH! I TOLD YOU IT’S GOOD! Ab, you come under here too. I’m very very very glad there’ll be another Seafieldian together for the whole of our MBBS programme. Whenever we have the urge to reminisce, we’re covered for the next 6 years. =)</p> <span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span><p></p> <p class="MsoNormal" align="center" style="text-align: center;"><b></b></p><p style="text-align: center;"><b>Special Mention</b></p><p></p> <p class="MsoNormal"></p><p>For those of you who helped me through those very, very dark days. Jas and Dree I’ve mentioned. =) For the Bliss and the pillow slamming moments. Hui Ting for the unexpected meeting during the Worship Conference. For sharing your heart and what you went through helped me so much more than I can ever say. You’re right, the most beautiful of rainbows come after the heaviest of storms. You were one of those rainbows. =) Mira, I don’t know how I could’ve ever done it without you. =) No matter what happens, yes, we’ll always be friends. Because at the end of the day, losing someone I’ve known for most of my life is never worth it. Selva, for NS. =) I’m sure I wasn’t the easiest to handle but you were there anyway. Darren, thank you for all the comfort you gave. And there were many of them. Haha! I really appreciate all the kindness you’ve shown me. <span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span>=) James, for putting up with my many disappearances, I hoped I have explained fully. Thank you for staying a good friend to me. It means very much to me.</p><p></p> <p class="MsoNormal" align="center" style="text-align: center;"><b>And you</b></p> <p class="MsoNormal"></p><p>If you see this. Thank you.<span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span>For the moments we shared. The year was what it was because of you. ‘Who can say if I’ve been changed for the better, but because I knew you, I have been changed for good’. I wish you every happiness. Goodbye.</p><p></p> <p class="MsoNormal"></p><p>Writing this makes me so overwhelmed and thankful to God for everything He has done for me in my life this year. I thought I only had a few things to say but it turned out that this was just one way for Him to show me the richness of the friendships I had this year.<span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span>Thank you, all of you, for making my year so special. =)</p><p></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><b><span class="Apple-style-span"></span></b></p><p><b>Happy New Year 2011.</b></p><p></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span class="Apple-style-span"><i>P.S If you want to leave a comment, can you do me a favour? Comment under this post and not put it in my cbox? Thanks! =)</i></span></p>Tze Quanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02241253984010210739noreply@blogger.com9tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3394304255430657120.post-50105329442665373912010-10-09T23:08:00.018+08:002010-10-10T00:15:02.909+08:00Not Enough Rocks<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhHP-mdyf9PzOAvRMFVqSV1msTam1m-k6D26e1ONZKcC4jiGikvgSxU9toLEd-4lZFxybiOvFkTlQ8sb_wwbk-pFLHAKY577qaf3EYqoLS0B63NPw-S-Tg_vp0pN_iTlSSyw_iPYpcbu-J4/s1600/cartoon-bitter.gif"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 384px; height: 387px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhHP-mdyf9PzOAvRMFVqSV1msTam1m-k6D26e1ONZKcC4jiGikvgSxU9toLEd-4lZFxybiOvFkTlQ8sb_wwbk-pFLHAKY577qaf3EYqoLS0B63NPw-S-Tg_vp0pN_iTlSSyw_iPYpcbu-J4/s400/cartoon-bitter.gif" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5526069756412690850" /></a><div style="text-align: center;">
</div><div style="text-align: left;"><p><i><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">Show me a man with a broken spirit and I’ll show you a man who is eaten up with bitterness.</span></i></p></div><p></p><p>If there’s one thing that saps a person’s strength more than anything else, it’s bitterness. As long as we walk this earth, we’re going to be offended, blindsided, betrayed, wounded. It’s common notion that everyone hurts. We are united not so much by our joys, but by our sorrows. And life is not life without them.</p><p></p><img src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjkUAPWS0NCCA-aMX0Gr0Lc3ApFQxNC1bLgibu370A0E0zl6K7oYz3aEAfbf5Q7YDUIvXadKcwVtQID1s7htKgloMboNEkW0-z7TcNRx3iq-t4-R0k2BCfQPQMQARnz3XzeGcgycw74J8go/s400/jfa2487l.jpg" style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 312px; height: 400px;" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5526069695992688338" /><div style="text-align: center;">
</div><p></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span style="mso-tab-count:1"> </span></p><p>The problem with bitterness is that once it takes root in us, it becomes very difficult to be released from it. And it eats us from the inside out. We fail to see the beauty of the other things around, preferring to dwell in our misery. Bitterness is also something we want to nurse. We WANT to have a reason to be angry, to rant, to hate the person who caused us so much grief. We WANT to resent the situation the person put us in. We WANT to believe that everything looks dark because of them. We WANT bitterness, period.</p><p></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span style="mso-tab-count:1"> </span></p><p>But guess what?</p><p>The ironic thing is, while you are tossing and turning in bed at night in your heartache, the person who hurt you is probably having a good night’s sleep.</p><p></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-indent:36.0pt"></p><p>So ask yourself, who’s the one suffering then?</p><p>Me, yes, me.</p><p><b><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">And the only way I’ll ever be able to be free from it is this – forgive.</span></b></p><p>I know what many people say about forgiving and forgetting. To be honest, I find it very difficult to completely forget the hurt done. For me, forgiving and forgetting are on opposite sides of the coin. You can’t have one without losing the sight of the other.<span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span>To forget would mean it never mattered to me and forgetting would mean I would make the same mistakes. I wouldn’t want to forget because that would mean I would do it all over again. To forgive would be me being able to remember, but I don’t feel the pang of resentment anymore. Which is why I cannot fathom how God can both forgive and remember our sins no more. But that’s another story altogether. =)</p><p></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span style="mso-tab-count:1"> </span></p><p>We could hang to our bitterness. It’ll be so easy.</p><p>Hating someone is always easier than letting go. But where would that lead us?</p><img src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjLt8UKM0SfSHXaajjTCWspV7uIqXrI0jcK5WP5aBAPfO_lHcCB7Z0T1A9r-qX1N9F8sx_-f9Jeb9blEIpt0LSbQTnEDXIWnCe5CwXwjUUOgYNSGVtWIN1xKhiIPvKB3RxIuUW44jdwxrqS/s400/da-vinci-the-last-supper.jpg" style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 210px;" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5526069629983818498" /><div style="text-align: center;">
</div><p></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span style="mso-tab-count:1"> </span></p><p>A story is told that Leonardo da Vinci painted ‘The Lord’s Supper’ when living in Milan. Before he could paint the thirteen figures, it was necessary to find men who could serve as models. Each model had to have a face that expressed da Vinci’s vision of the particular man he would represent. Needless to say, this proved to be a tedious task – to find just the right face.</p><p></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span style="mso-tab-count:1"> </span></p><p>One Sunday, as da Vinci was at the cathedral for mass, he saw a young man in the choir who looked like da Vinci’s idea of how Jesus must have looked. He had the features of love, tenderness, caring, innocence, compassion, and kindness. Arrangements were made for the young man, Pietri Bandinelli, to sit as the model for the Lord.</p><p></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span style="mso-tab-count:1"> </span></p><p>Years went by, and the painting was still not complete. Da Vinci could not find just the right face for Judas. He was looking for a man whose face was streaked with despair, wickedness, greed, bitterness and sin.</p><p></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span style="mso-tab-count:1"> </span></p><p>Ten years later after starting the picture, he found a man in prison whose face wore all the qualities of Judas for which he had been searching. Consent was given for the prisoner to pose, and he sat as the model for Judas. Leonardo worked feverishly for days. But as the work went on, he noticed certain changes taking place in the prisoner. His face seemed filled with tension and his bloodshot eyes were filled with horror as he gaped at the likeness of himself painted on the canvas.</p><p>One day, Leonardo sensed the man’s uneasiness so greatly that he stopped painting and asked, “What seems to trouble you so much?” The man buried his face in his hands and was convulsed with sobs. After a long time, he raised his head and inquired, “Don’t you remember me? Years ago I was your model for the Lord Jesus”.</p><p></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span style="mso-tab-count:1"> </span></p><p>Bitterness is the root of the downfall of men. As the saying goes, a wounded tiger is the most dangerous. A hurting heart is the most vindictive.</p><p></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span style="mso-tab-count:1"> </span></p><p>I choose not to be bitter.</p><img src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjQsehv6BYZV3xURyRVbebqMF4HX0yOiqTMrabcFvS2ewnIn8ZBMptopk7RdnwywALD91NV9_vBFNONXOIbK63XPojlcsAwzOOzuRVroszwiNNbpWCTwvjr5EZuyglKemPAdHUK7tbL2-1o/s400/ForrestJennyRocks.jpg" style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 262px;" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5526069573079568194" /><p></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span style="mso-tab-count:1"> </span></p><p>I<span class="apple-style-span"><span style="mso-bidi-font-family:Tahoma">n</span></span><span class="apple-converted-space"><span style="mso-bidi-font-family:Tahoma"> </span></span><span class="apple-style-span"><span style="mso-bidi-font-family:Tahoma;mso-bidi-font-style: italic">Forrest Gump</span></span><span class="apple-style-span"><span style="mso-bidi-font-family:Tahoma">, Forrest's friend Jenny had endur</span></span><span class="apple-style-span"><span style="mso-bidi-font-family:Tahoma">ed a childhood of abuse and neglect at the hands of her father. In one scene, Forrest and Jenny visit her old house, and Forrest watches as Jenny throws stone after stone at the weather-beaten old house which held so many painful memories for her.</span></span><span style="mso-bidi-font-family:Tahoma"> <span class="apple-style-span">When Jenny finally quits throwing rocks and began to cry, Forrest said, "<span style="mso-bidi-font-style:italic">Sometimes there just aren't enough rocks.</span>"</span></span></p><o:p></o:p><p></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span class="apple-style-span"><span style="mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma"><span style="mso-tab-count:1"> </span></span></span></p><p>There just aren’t enough rocks to fling at the person who has hurt us. But even more so, there just aren’t enough rocks to hurl at ourselves. Morrie from Tuesdays with Morrie says, ‘Forgive everyone everything now. Not everyone has the chance to wait’. He wasn’t only talking about the other person. He also meant our own selves.</p><o:p></o:p><p></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span class="apple-style-span"><span style="mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma"><span style="mso-tab-count:1"> </span></span></span></p><p><span class="apple-style-span"><b><i><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: x-large;">We... need to forgive ourselves... For all the things we didn't do. All the things we should have done. You can't get stuck on the regrets of what should have happened</span></i></b><b><i><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: x-large;">.</span></i></b> <span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span>~Tuesdays with Morrie~</span></p><o:p></o:p><p></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span class="apple-style-span"><span style="mso-bidi-font-family: Arial"><span style="mso-tab-count:1"> </span></span></span></p><p>At the end of the day, when everything is over, why should I still be bitter? Why should I let it kill me inside? Why should I still hurt?</p><o:p></o:p><p></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span class="apple-style-span"><span style="mso-bidi-font-family: Arial"><span style="mso-tab-count:1"> </span></span></span></p><p>For what?</p><o:p></o:p><p></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span class="apple-style-span"><span style="mso-bidi-font-family: Arial"><span style="mso-tab-count:1"> </span></span></span></p><p>And so, I’ll forgive you.</p><o:p></o:p><p></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span class="apple-style-span"><span style="mso-bidi-font-family: Arial"><span style="mso-tab-count:1"> </span></span></span></p><p>But more importantly, I’ll forgive myself.</p><span style="mso-bidi-font-family: Arial"><o:p></o:p></span><p></p>Tze Quanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02241253984010210739noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3394304255430657120.post-36810021666115007512010-09-19T11:43:00.002+08:002010-09-19T11:49:52.801+08:00The 'Tick' Story.<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgZWKD10CQ93MPgITCbWTvCGpxvEUsmTSfxDmoEdA2b5-_7n9U4Fmyy1TD2bQpK9cyxObJYHV_KlaGY71DKpQtcH9AEhhP4xlyo-ZeOeN4C_ey8n_PCfjrnC3rzIRaW1Qy8FPO8guCxOk7A/s1600/mban2104l.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 397px; height: 400px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgZWKD10CQ93MPgITCbWTvCGpxvEUsmTSfxDmoEdA2b5-_7n9U4Fmyy1TD2bQpK9cyxObJYHV_KlaGY71DKpQtcH9AEhhP4xlyo-ZeOeN4C_ey8n_PCfjrnC3rzIRaW1Qy8FPO8guCxOk7A/s400/mban2104l.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5518466791401531538" /></a><p class="MsoNormal"></p><p>Once again, I apologise for not updating my blog as often as I’d like. I wish I could say that I was busy (which I was but that’s not the only reason) but truth be told, I didn’t have much inspiration to write anything. Haha! The lack of impetus due to the lack of English lessons has gotten to me. But now I have too much to share. I’ll take it slow then.</p><p></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span style="mso-tab-count:1"> </span></p><p>It’s a Sunday morning and my brother and I spent it attacking my dog and searching for ticks in her. She has a MASSIVE amount of them! It accumulated because *ahem* I haven’t been bathing her often. But as we were performing this ‘minor surgical procedure’ requiring the skilled hands of the surgeon (my brother) and an anaesthetic (me holding Melody still while blowing into her face), something struck me.</p><p></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span style="mso-tab-count:1"> </span></p><p>How many of us have ‘ticks’ on us? Parasites that we have allowed into our lives to drain us of the time, energy, even money on things which aren’t important?</p><p></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span style="mso-tab-count:1"> </span></p><p>I know I have. Far too many actually.</p><p></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span style="mso-tab-count:1"> </span></p><p>For too long I’ve let them take root in my life when I should have taken them out a long time ago.<span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span>The problem is ticks hate it when you try to take them out. ESPECIALLY when they’ve engorged themselves silly on my poor dog. You pull them out and they scamper all around the dog and squishing them is pretty disgusting too. Sometimes it’s easier to leave them in because after awhile, you cease to notice them as parasites but just assume they’re part of your life, ‘For better or for worse’.</p><p></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span style="mso-tab-count:1"> </span></p><p>In that sense, taking out the ‘ticks’ in our life is never easy. <span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span>It’s painful. (My poor dog yelped when we pulled them out). It requires the <b><i>strength of the will and the courage of the heart</i></b>. Strength of the will not only to recognise the ‘ticks’ but to decide and carry out its removal. Courage of the heart to then stand firm on the decision.</p><span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span><p></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span style="mso-tab-count:1"> </span></p><p>The worse part of ticks is if you don’t fully remove them, the head still remains in the wound and the dog will have a bad infection. Which is why my brother and I keep squinting at the ticks we removed to make sure the head is out as well.</p><p></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span style="mso-tab-count:1"> </span></p><p>I guess that is true in the sense of our parasites too. Sometimes my courage falters and I didn’t remove the ‘tick’ fully. Sadly, I end up making mistakes far worse than before.</p><p></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span style="mso-tab-count:1"> </span></p><p>What are the ‘ticks’ in your life? Most of the time, we already know what they are but for some reason or another, we want to keep them in. For me, if there’s one thing I learnt about these pests, it is <b><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">sometimes it’s good to turn around and go back to the beginning when you’re hopelessly lost trying to move forward</span></b>. When too many doors have closed, when it becomes too difficult, it could be God trying to tell you that, ‘Hey, it’s time to let go’.</p><p></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span style="mso-tab-count:1"> </span></p><p>And so I will let go of these ‘ticks’. Painful as it is, sometimes the best place to be is right at the beginning again to start over.</p><p></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><o:p> </o:p></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><o:p> </o:p></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span style="mso-tab-count:1"> </span><span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span></p>Tze Quanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02241253984010210739noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3394304255430657120.post-24443701583276227272010-08-13T11:54:00.002+08:002010-08-13T11:56:41.293+08:00My Role Model is Patch Adams<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="mso-ascii-font-family:Calibri;mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri">Any aspiring young student who has taken an interest in becoming a doctor will be greeted with two responses – extreme admiration or extreme admonishment. I received both simultaneously when I expressed my wish to become a doctor. Admonishment because medicine is an arduous path – one which requires many years of study and a lot of money. Admonishment because being a doctor would mean sacrificing ‘me time’ for others. Admonishment because being a doctor is just plain difficult. <o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span style="mso-ascii-font-family:Calibri;mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri">However, what made me continue to stick to this dream of mine? For me, the conviction lies strongly in what I watched in the 1998 movie, ‘Patch Adams’. In the climax of the show, Adams was to attend a hearing where it will be decided whether he can graduate from medical school. His final speech left a deep impact on me. He said, ‘</span><span class="apple-style-span"><span style="mso-ascii-font-family:Calibri;mso-hansi-font-family:Calibri;mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;color:black">You treat a disease, you win, you lose. You treat a person, I guarantee you, you'll win, no matter what the outcome.’ <o:p></o:p></span></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span class="apple-style-span"><span style="mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri;mso-hansi-font-family:Calibri;mso-bidi-font-family:Arial;color:black">I aspire to be a doctor with a difference. I can say that it is my right to get the healthcare that I deserve but at the same time, what is my responsibility to ensure that such healthcare exists? The world, our country is in need of doctors with an excellent spirit. Doctors who treat their patients, not their diseases. Excellence does not equate to perfection. There are no perfect doctors, only excellent ones. But what does it mean to be excellent? To be an excellent doctor, it does not necessarily mean healing everyone who walks into my practice. Being an excellent doctor is one who is able to lift up the human spirit even in the midst of sickness.</span></span><span class="apple-converted-space"><span style="mso-ascii-font-family:Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family:Calibri;mso-bidi-font-family:Arial;color:black"> <o:p></o:p></span></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span class="apple-converted-space"><span style="mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri;mso-hansi-font-family:Calibri;mso-bidi-font-family:Arial;color:black">As for me, that is the kind of doctor I want to be. The kind of doctor who upholds the Hippocrates Oath, primum non nocere – First do no harm. Harm not necessarily meaning physical harm but also the emotional wellbeing of patients. The kind of doctor who will seek to improve the quality of life, not just delaying death. The kind of doctor who will always bring hope to everyone who walk through the door.<o:p></o:p></span></span></p><p class="MsoNormal">P.S I found this somewhere in my computer as I was deleting all the junk I have there. I'll probably edit this when I have more time later. =) But my next post would be around this subject.</p>Tze Quanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02241253984010210739noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3394304255430657120.post-24159419951309714222010-07-04T20:30:00.004+08:002010-07-06T10:05:45.170+08:00A Risk Worth Taking<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhEYbTekAwRm90bjXGgpV3Ki0DM877GMJMMkjj9_ILHJhofxmJTAqznpCSiCqzz3_q-ugEeqOJzTME3ED3NFdv8YNuVDMAnsOHaEdHWuLV1p_ggEhaq_y9bKC_KVY_h4inobMtg9BfoU1B3/s1600/cliff.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 267px; height: 400px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhEYbTekAwRm90bjXGgpV3Ki0DM877GMJMMkjj9_ILHJhofxmJTAqznpCSiCqzz3_q-ugEeqOJzTME3ED3NFdv8YNuVDMAnsOHaEdHWuLV1p_ggEhaq_y9bKC_KVY_h4inobMtg9BfoU1B3/s400/cliff.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5490598513671092050" /></a>
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</p><p>Yes, I know it has been ages but one thing led to another and before I knew it, it was 3 months since I last posted here. The thought of abandoning this blog has occurred but then again, after much thought, I decided against it. So, this is to tie up the loose ends and to provide the conclusion to what happened after the JPA interview.</p><p></p> <p class="MsoNormal"></p><p>In other words, here’s to closure.</p><p></p> <p class="MsoNormal"></p><p>To provide a prelude to the story, let’s just say I took a huge risk in taking an additional 3 subjects towards the end of my Form 4 year. I thought taking 10 was bad but after taking 13, 10 seemed like a walk in the park. What with the change of grading system to A+ barely a month before SPM, the risk seemed even more daunting. However, there was nowhere to go but ahead and thank God, I got 12 A+ and 1 A. As such, I applied for JPA scholarship.</p><p></p> <p class="MsoNormal"></p><p>The wait for the results were endless. One day merged to the next with no sense of separation. I ended up registering for Form 6 because the results were still not released by then. It honestly felt like in some ways, I had never left. It’s true that the best thing about going back to my old school is that everything is familiar. Yet at the same time, that’s the worst thing too. My heart wasn’t there yet because of some many unfinished things and as such, I had a difficult time committing fully to the situation I was in.</p><p></p> <p class="MsoNormal"></p><p>After 2 weeks in school, the results were released. And I did not get it. Was I disappointed? I definitely was. I’d be lying if I said I wasn’t. I’d be lying if I said I wasn’t angry. I’d be lying if I said I didn’t cry. But there was nothing I could do besides appealing. Even then, I didn’t dare put too much hope into it any longer. <span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span>By then, I was afraid to hope because I was afraid of being rejected all over again.</p><p></p> <p class="MsoNormal"></p><p>So I went ahead with Form 6, throwing myself into it because now, it was all or nothing. The only way I was going to be a doctor was if I do well to do it locally. But over time, I had amazing friends that I had the privilege of meeting. It was funny how fast we clicked together and being around them made Form 6 bearable, pleasurable even.</p><p></p> <p class="MsoNormal"></p><p>In fact, I was with all of them when the results for the appeal came out. This time, I got it. Let me tell you, this is one of the very few times I’m unable to put into words how I felt. I was just so thankful that God gave this amazing blessing that the feeling just overwhelmed me.</p> <span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span><p></p> <p class="MsoNormal"></p><p>But it was a bittersweet. I was leaving my friends behind, people who I’ve come to love and enjoy being around with. It was difficult and I ended up crying harder compared to when I didn’t get it.</p><p></p> <p class="MsoNormal"></p><p>Now I’m doing my A-levels in Management and Science University bound for India to do medicine. It’s a new chapter of my life for me and one I’m looking forward to embarking. I just thank God for giving me this opportunity to chase my dreams and become a doctor. Even though it hasn't been easy living in a hostel, I would do all of it because He has opened the door wide open for me. It would be crazy not to go all out running through it now.</p><p></p> <p class="MsoNormal"></p><p>So to all of you who will be reading this sometime next year and are planning to apply for JPA scholarship, all the best! It’s not going to be easy that’s certain, so I just have this to say. Don’t take the scholarship as Plan A. The saddest part for me to go through was the remarks I got when I chose to enter Form 6. Yes, I chose and willingly entered Form 6 by my own decision. Because for me, Form 6 was never plan B. It was always THE plan. </p><p></p> <p class="MsoNormal"></p><p>But don’t let other people discourage you from applying and trying anyway! Especially for you who want to do medicine. I had so many people telling me, 'I told you so' after I didn't get the scholarship the first round. But it's ok! <b><i><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:x-large;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;">It’s a risk but it’s a risk worth taking. After all, to love is to risk not being loved in return. To hope is to risk pain. To try is to risk failure. But risks must be taken because the greatest hazard in life is to risk nothing.</span></span></i></b><span style="mso-fareast-font-family:"Times New Roman";mso-bidi- mso-fareast-language:EN-MYfont-family:Tahoma;"></span></p><o:p></o:p><p></p>Tze Quanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02241253984010210739noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3394304255430657120.post-29174817456946690592010-04-10T11:57:00.011+08:002010-04-10T12:18:05.554+08:00How My JPA Interview Went<div style="text-align: center;"><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjsr9HnfdLpcFSZd8Nowf8D98fZWZwJ52_hhJ1NNhoT2c4O50QueRLamu_uA26joQ_igSPedzxXjuU_r8ErYgNUvlf21gOMTIQP0aZBBSh7V3s6qAmp92K-HH50ZEvHnkXseuzj-jYFd0O0/s1600/chickeninterview.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 391px; height: 400px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjsr9HnfdLpcFSZd8Nowf8D98fZWZwJ52_hhJ1NNhoT2c4O50QueRLamu_uA26joQ_igSPedzxXjuU_r8ErYgNUvlf21gOMTIQP0aZBBSh7V3s6qAmp92K-HH50ZEvHnkXseuzj-jYFd0O0/s400/chickeninterview.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5458356171305886898" /></a></div><div style="text-align: left;">I’m indefinitely grateful for all those forums and blogs who wrote and explained in great detail what to expect for the JPA interview. Because of that, I feel that I should share about my experience in my interview for the benefit of those who will be going for it next year and the years to come. So yeah, I hope this helps. Haha!</div><p></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-indent:36.0pt"></p><p>I found out about my interview date on the 29<sup>th</sup> of March. Everything is online these days so likewise, I checked via the JPA website, esila. I got the 5<sup>th</sup> of April, which is the first day of the interviews. Whether that is a good thing or not, I wasn’t quite sure but well, at least mine will be over quick.</p><p></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-indent:36.0pt"></p><p>Or so I thought.</p><p style="text-align: center;"><img src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhves9bjTy_E2jOz12bR64YByme331_Z1gC0lpU04CdTAKgIcgVulH6izrfa0ndtGxYnep-st6Fm7ZxfPnM7LH_Lx8zhlqXpzVjknKyhQ2C3TBWFTPSzDwpe_ovCBBGyG6lPOefEPqiQX7I/s400/jkn0147l.jpg" /></p><p style="text-align: left;">The journey though only spanning one week is tough. First, you need to prepare a whole lot of documents to be shown and certified. That meant trips to school. Out of 5 schooling days then, I returned to school for 4 days. There was always something which needed to be signed and verified by the school heads. Not only that, you have to attach all your certificates from Form 4 and Form 5, all the time hoping that this will be enough to give you as much co-curriculum marks as possible. <b><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:large;">NOTE: FOR THOSE WHO WENT NATIONAL SERVICE, BE SURE THAT THIS IS THE FIRST ONE OF YOUR STACK OF CERTIFICATES. THIS IS VERY IMPORTANT. </span></b>While I was still in camp, my camp commandant told us that this would give us the maximum 10 merit points for JPA interview. I’m not sure what the merit points mean; but if you have that certificate, treat it like gold. You also have to take an online personality quiz. It’s not difficult – it’s all YES/NO questions.</p><p style="text-align: center;"><img src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEim8MbMjpKVhoeip2eKF_JNGbX6B-UNHuxQr7IjU8otPd6yNdDWnm1Xjq-eBSvJWDb-Ka64RAZk0w2uT5gmRGrJDDLLAQQvSv6xyy0PdHUxxLgFl5Fusp-j6sSFzbUmjNbLz50XDdh-ezoR/s400/interview.jpg" /></p><p>Oh, and of course looking for appropriate clothes. I just borrowed my friend’s baju kurung and made sure I had covered shoes. You can wear formal outfit too but I heard that baju kurung is the safest. With my clear folder filled, all I could do was pray and pray for favourable interviewers and topics. With that, I went to sleep.</p><p></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-indent:36.0pt"></p><p>I arrived at Putrajaya around 7.15 in the morning and in the lobby, there are whiteboards up with lists of names pasted on it. What I needed to do was to check for my name to determine which panel I am in. I was put in Panel 3 and my name was all the way at the bottom. I knew we had to enter in groups of 5 and judging by the dismal position of my name, I knew I was going to be the last group to enter. I hope the prospect of lunch will make the interviewers more sympathetic to us. Haha!</p><p></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-indent:36.0pt"></p><p>I got to meet quite a number of my schoolmates and even those I met in National Service. It was there I found out that they more or less arranged the interviews according to the course you choose. For example, Monday and Tuesday are for medicine, dentistry and pharmacy. I’ve yet to hear of anyone applying for veterinarian science. The first interview in my panel went in at about 8.20 leaving the rest of us to our own devices. Word of advice, DON’T VIEW OTHER PEOPLE’S FILES. You’ll start feeling rather inadequate. Haha!</p><p></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-indent:36.0pt"></p><p>Anyway, I did say my group was going to be the last to enter. And I forgot to bring a book. Those who know me would know that this is very unlike me. So I suggest you should pack in some form of entertainment to keep your hands and mind busy especially if you, like me have to wait for 4 hours before they call my group in. I was surfing the net with my phone while waiting. Not bad, the wifi signal is really strong.</p><p></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-indent:36.0pt"></p><p>Alas! My turn came. I was supposed to be the second to speak but because someone from the previous group didn’t turn up (for all you know, could be one of the 30 who got the Prime Minister scholarship) the first person of my group went in earlier. This makes me the first to speak. I’m not sure again, if that’s a good thing but well, at least nobody will have said any of my points. Before you enter, you have to submit the photocopied documents to the clerk as well as your entire file. My guess is this is where they take your co-curriculum marks.</p><p style="text-align: center;"><img src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgs_zKVcwVoG52Uj3qBosGdpQDmIuvoQkJvsFB7cxfH0eca1uH4LIW57X2s0ySakOl65VtjJL_hXHcD06QzjZGAJymtGTIYbcjGrM4oFrZELE5BnAH7gmxrgZ3MmFmxAMP8x7IyVQ9zcqB0/s400/Interview+(1).jpg" /></p><p></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-indent:36.0pt"></p><p>My interview began at 12. My group now only had 4 people; two malay girls, one indian boy and me. We greeted the interviewers and they told us to take a seat. All my interviewers were ladies, two malays and one indian. I was really glad when I found out that all my interviewers were ladies because that solved the awkward question of whether I should shake their hands or not. In NS, I realise that guys don’t shake the girls’ hands. I made that mistake and a lot of people were giving me rather quizzical looks. Anyway, here’s how my interview went.</p><p></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-indent:36.0pt"></p><p>They asked us to introduce ourselves in BM. This is quite standard but they didn’t really want a very long one. In fact, they just told us they wanted our name, our school, what class we are applying for and which country we would preferably like to study in. Apparently they need to fill up some documents. So ok, that was pretty easy. All of the people in my group applied for medicine with two wanting to go to UK (I’m one of them) and another two to Ireland.</p><p></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-indent:36.0pt"></p><p>Next, the group discussion. One of the interviewers explained to us that JPA sends them a list of questions to ask. The question they gave us was, ‘Do you think private healthcare insurance is an option for the government to reduce costs’?<span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span>They gave us 5 minutes to discuss. So ok, we did. Once again, I’m not sure about this but I heard that they will evaluate you not only during your presentation but during your discussion time as well. I just tried to work with my group to understand first, what is private healthcare insurance and then will it really reduce costs? We agreed that yes, it does reduce costs but how? That was where we tried to come up with our respective points. Let me just say this, THINK FAST. There really is no time for us to even hear each other’s points before the interviewers told us that time’s up.</p><p></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-indent:36.0pt"></p><p>Surprisingly, our interviewers told us to answer this in BM which was something we were not prepared for. After all, the question was given to us in English. They then asked who would like to speak first. I raised my hand and started . I said (well, more or less), ‘Saya setuju bahawa insurans perubatan daripada syarikat swasta mampu membantu kerajaan mengurangkan kos. Hal ini adalah kerana bagi mereka yang mampu, mereka akan membeli insurans tersebut dan mendapat rawatan daripada hospital swasta. Ini akan mengurangkan beban tanggungan kerajaan kerana hanya mereka yang tidak berkemampuan untuk membeli insurans tersebut akan ke hospital kerajaan. Sekali gus, wang kerajaan dapat dijimatkan dan digunakan untuk mereka yang memerlukan bantuan kerajaan untuk mendapat rawatan dan perubatan. Sekarang saya akan memberi peluang kepada *the second girl’s name* untuk menerangkan secare lebih lanjut tentang topik ini’ Whether that was enough, I don’t know but they didn’t pry further into my answers or ask any more questions to prompt me to speak which looks pretty ok, I guess.</p><p></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-indent:36.0pt"></p><p>Remember though to speak in the language they ask you to speak in, no bahasa rojak. And also, try to be clear about what your point is. Like in all essays, remember to have a point, elaboration and then example. I mean, at least the interviewers will be able to understand what you’re trying to say. I learnt this from debate and sure hope it’s applicable here. =)</p><p></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-indent:36.0pt"></p><p>After all of us have spoken, the Indian lady asked us all a question. It wasn’t a group discussion but we were to answer the same question individually. And this is why you should NOT over-prepare for the interview. She asked us a simple enough question, ‘Who has a facebook account?’ We all grinned sheepishly and said yes. I mean, I was on facebook just before entering the room. Haha! She went on to say, ‘We all do but now I want you to discuss, not the advantages but the DISADVANTAGES OF FACEBOOK’. Hahaha! I felt like laughing because this is such a random question which has nothing to do with medicine really. We were given about a minute to think and we were to answer in English. They also told us that they will choose the order in which we will speak.</p><p></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-indent:36.0pt"></p><p>The second girl is now the first to speak. She said about how facebook misleads people as we can put up false information about ourselves. Next was the Indian boy. He said about how facebook leads to laziness and addiction and we don’t do anything else but stare at it. He shared about his experience and got the interviewers attention as they start asking him questions about his ‘addiction’. Next was the other malay girl and she said that facebook leads to unhealthy lifestyle because they don’t exercise when all they do is stare at facebook. And me, now I’m the last to speak. Hahaha!</p><p></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-indent:36.0pt"></p><p>Ok, I’m really really REALLY thankful that just before my interview, I was rereading all my blog posts. And this facebook topic actually falls under something I wrote quite some time ago here: <a href="http://tzequan.blogspot.com/2009/06/technology-in-communication-boon-or.html">http://tzequan.blogspot.com/2009/06/technology-in-communication-boon-or.html</a>. So basically, what I said was, ‘Well, for me, the disadvantage of facebook is we have lost the ability to communicate with one another on a face-to-face level. I agree with what *the second girl’s name* said about how we can misrepresent ourselves on facebook. This obviously means we are not having a relationship with that person because the information we receive is not even real! I also agree with what *the Indian boy’s name* and *other malay girl’s name* said about how it makes us lazy. It’s true that we have become lazy to keep and maintain our friendships with facebook. For us, the only effort we will make is to just write on each other’s walls. We have lost one of the most important skills as humans – face-to-face communication. I acknowledge that facebook is important as for me; it’s one of the only ways I get to keep in touch with my friends from NS, many of which are from Sabah and Sarawak. However, it still stands that the disadvantage of facebook is the breakdown of face-to-face communication’. <span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span>Phew... And they didn’t ask any questions throughout the whole thing. Not so sure again, if that’s a good thing but yeah, that’s how mine went.</p><p style="text-align: center;"><img src="http://smallbiztrends.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/04/andertoons-qualifications.jpg" /></p><p></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-indent:36.0pt"></p><p>After that, they asked us about our family background as again, they needed to fill in some forms. And then went on to extra curriculum activities. Mine had some problem because of the lack of sports. This drew their attention and they asked me why I wasn’t involved. I explained that I used to take part in track events but only for Sports Day. Moreover, I had a lot of other responsibilities such as being a Deputy Head Girl, Vice President of Christian Fellowship and a debator. It’s not easy to cope so I had to prioritize. And apparently, the deputy head girl was not in my application! Gah, thank God they asked me this question or it would have been submitted as it is. They corrected my application and then moved on to ‘Reality Check’.</p><p></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-indent:36.0pt"></p><p>Basically, they had to put in a lot of disclaimers such as the chances of us getting the scholarship is very, very slim and they will look into a whole lot of aspects such as social welfare. They just wanted to make sure that we are aware that this is an application, which means we are opening up ourselves to be rejected. And not get too disappointed about it. So get ready a plan B if this one does not work out.</p><p></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-indent:36.0pt"></p><p>At the very end of the interview, they asked us whether we would come back to Malaysia after our studies. BE HONEST. Seriously, because they WILL shoot you if you aren’t. So I said, ‘Well it true that money is a big deciding factor in choosing a job, as any econs student will tell you. But at the end of the day, you have to ask yourself what goes more than money? For me, it’s the values I’ve been brought up with and one of it is gratitude. I guess, a more fitting saying would be I can’t bite the hand which feeds me. So yes, I will come back’. Don’t get discouraged if they laugh and say, 'They all say that!' because well, it’s true. Everyone will say that but if it really comes from your heart, they can't penalise you for it. Like I said, BE HONEST because somewhere along the line, the interviewer had to stop a candidate and ask, ‘Are you just saying this because you think that’s what we want to hear?’ Yes, OUCH. And it’s ok to say you want to study overseas, just make sure you know why. Thankfully, they didn’t ask us why and that ends the session of them questioning us.</p><p></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-indent:36.0pt"></p><p>After that, the interview became a Q&A session instead. Haha! Seriously, they allowed us to ask any question we wanted and so we did. If this happens, ask questions! Never mind if it sounds ridiculous, as long as it is remotely related to the scholarship, just ask. You never know if they’re evaluating you. I didn’t know either but I just asked some questions too.</p><p style="text-align: center;"><img src="http://www.cartoonstock.com/newscartoons/cartoonists/msh/lowres/mshn76l.jpg" /></p><p></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-indent:36.0pt"></p><p>And then it ended! We shook hands with the interviewers and left the room. My ordeal lasted exactly one hour. To tell you the truth, I guess it wasn’t as bad as I thought. Now, all that’s left is to pray very hard that God will open this door. =)</p><p></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-indent:36.0pt"></p><p>I hope my experience helps!</p><p></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-indent:36.0pt"><span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span></p>Tze Quanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02241253984010210739noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3394304255430657120.post-40782383401816204082010-03-30T10:19:00.003+08:002010-03-30T11:04:08.925+08:00Where's Your Flag? [Introduction]<div>
</div><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgUfCI9PnnkVLgnqoFOzpCS6TeoUtZQoCR9kUB7MXfEkPlEMwPPaVZmeCuzr9ZQUOJ3W8x0fgLeix_qi9RlYkAodk6TdKDjoEDfF9qglDKPiTVYxCe6KUm666z-tRvOLISslzNcU1Gl0fOX/s1600/24803_362395657934_564207934_3621401_1009208_n.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 300px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgUfCI9PnnkVLgnqoFOzpCS6TeoUtZQoCR9kUB7MXfEkPlEMwPPaVZmeCuzr9ZQUOJ3W8x0fgLeix_qi9RlYkAodk6TdKDjoEDfF9qglDKPiTVYxCe6KUm666z-tRvOLISslzNcU1Gl0fOX/s400/24803_362395657934_564207934_3621401_1009208_n.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5454257028207583602" /></a><p class="MsoNormal"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;"></span></p><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;"><p>Yes, I know it has been AGES since I blogged. It has just been a crazy quarter of the year for me this 2010. As you would have probably realized by now (due to the sad lack of updates), I was in National Service for the first 2 months and 1 week of the year. Then I had my SPM results and working stint in a hospital for a week. So NOW, I’m finally, finally free to update this to prove that, <b><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:large;">‘NO, THIS BLOG IS NOT DEAD’</span></b>.</p></span><p></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;"> </span></p><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;"><p>The problem with going away for so long is that I just have too much to write. I have just too much to say because I experienced so much. That was partly also the reason why I procrastinated blogging about my NS experience until now. It was information overload that whenever I start typing, I end up pressing the backspace button and the little red ‘X’ at the top right hand corner.</p></span><p></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;"></span></p><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;"><p>But the again, I realize if I don’t get moving on it, I’ll NEVER do it. So here goes.</p></span><p></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;"></span></p><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;"><p>One of the defining moments of NS is this – <b>OUR COMPANY FLAG ALWAYS WENT MISSING</b>. No, seriously. The thing is, we’re supposed to keep our flag with us at all times. Yes, even when we’re sleeping. Under no circumstances were we to ask someone else to take care of it for us. It was our responsibility and we were not even allowed to pass it to our Officer-in-Charge of our company.</p> </span><p></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;"><o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;"></span></p><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;"><p>But in a typical funny-now-but-not-so-funny-then moment, we handed it over to a trainer. That’s right. We HANDED IT OVER. You would think we learnt our lesson after writing 50 lines on how we will take care of our flag the same way we take care of out life but I beg to differ. The second time we lost it, it was because it was left in the guys’ dorm. This time, we had 125 lines. We felt like we were in pre-school again. The third time was classic, we just walked off and left it there in the hall. This time, the trainers hid our flag and we had to hunt for it while everyone else were collecting their handphones for the last time of camp. That’s right. <b>WE LOST OUR FLAG WHEN THERE WAS ONLY 2 DAYS LEFT OF CAMP!!!</b></p> </span><p></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;"></span></p><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;"><p>Even though I was frustrated beyond belief due to this, looking back, there are a lot of lessons to be drawn from these incidents. And a lot of parallels can be drawn to our character and life as a whole.</p> </span><p></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;"></span></p><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;"><p><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:x-large;"><i>What is a flag?</i></span></p></span><p></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;"></span></p><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;"><p>A flag is a piece of fabric, often flown from a pole or mast, generally used symbolically for signaling or identification.</p> </span><p></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;"></span></p><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;"><p>The key word here is this – <b><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:x-large;">IDENTIFICATION</span></b>.</p></span><p></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;"></span></p><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;"><p>Throughout camp, I came to realize that our flag wasn’t just a piece of cloth. It was more than that. It symbolized our unity, our spirit, our determination, our character and our core values. It represented who we are and whenever anyone saw it, they knew that this flag was Alpha’s.</p> </span><p></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;"></span></p><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;"><p>In the same way, we carry a flag with us in life too. Well, obviously we don’t lug around a piece of cloth and wave it wherever we go. The flag we carry about is not physically visible, but it is apparent in the way we lead our lives. After all, what it that people will remember us by?</p></span><p></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span class="apple-style-span"><span style=" ;color:black;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;"></span></span></span></p><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;"><p>It’s our <b><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:large;">CHARACTER</span></b>.</p></span><p></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span class="apple-style-span"><span style=" ;color:black;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;"></span></span></span></p><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;"><p>That’s the flag we bring around. It represents who we are and whenever anyone sees it, they know whom it belongs to.</p></span><p></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span class="apple-style-span"><span style=" ;color:black;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;"></span></span></span></p><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;"><p>So from the three incidents where we lost our flags, I could draw three lessons.</p></span><p></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span class="apple-style-span"><span style=" ;color:black;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;"></span></span></span></p><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;"><p>First, that there are always people around and circumstances that will arise to steal your identity and corrupt your character. And sometimes, they don’t need to do it by force. We will willingly give in.</p></span><p></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span class="apple-style-span"><span style=" ;color:black;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;"></span></span></span></p><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;"><p>Second, there are also times when it is a collective responsibility to uphold what we believe in. One individual’s action will affect the whole team.</p></span><p></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span class="apple-style-span"><span style=" ;color:black;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;"></span></span></span></p><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;"><p>And third, if we are not careful, we will make the same mistake over and over again and compromising ourselves for the same vice.</p></span><p></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span class="apple-style-span"><span style=" ;color:black;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;"></span></span></span></p><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;"><p>So yes, I’ll divide this post into three sections because it will kill my eyes (and yours) if I were to put this in one MEGA post.</p></span><p></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span class="apple-style-span"><span style=" ;color:black;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;"></span></span></span></p><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;"><p>And Sarah-Ann, I will finish what I start. =)</p></span><p></p>Tze Quanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02241253984010210739noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3394304255430657120.post-33474973386201433592010-01-01T14:02:00.004+08:002010-01-01T18:23:45.838+08:00Triple P's - Priorities, Principles, Perspective (Part 4)<div style="text-align: left;">It certainly has been a long time since I’ve updated my blog. I meant to write as soon as I finished SPM (Note, I finished on the 15<sup>th</sup> of December, not on the 8<sup>th</sup> like the majority of the other SPM-ers) but church events rolled one after another and the next thing I knew, it’s 2010!</div><p></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><o:p> </o:p></p> <p class="MsoNormal"></p><p> Which then made me think, what do I write as the first post of the year? I was having a serious case of writer’s block (try writing Christmas cards, it drains the lust for writing out of anyone) and so decided to look through my old posts to see if I left anything unfinished. And guess what? I did! So this is my last one to finish up the Triple P’s – Priorities, Principles and Perspective series.</p><p></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><o:p> </o:p></p> <p class="MsoNormal"></p><p> But then again, I didn’t really have anything to write about perspective. Until just now when I was sitting in my dad’s car on my way to my grandma’s.</p><img src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiLOI76pVJkNB91rkjrPkMbERzNfOAy4U8XabizaOKiP7IA4DIGiHcYuxhRnOYcmhGfqPY7mVsSQaELEwjaslLjxo1__WmTIRbAqqWsCC4wbBkNMhV6c6U4MgN8vEgDoXKygt0uCLsZIS29/s400/dro0031l.jpg" style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 311px;" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5421670466441748658" /><p>There are two kinds of people in a moving car – drivers and passengers. Up till now, I am STILL a passenger because of the sad lack of driving license. I love being a passenger though. I get to daydream, blast my ipod and block all other noises out and laugh at funny shaped cars on the road. I get to sleep when I’m bored; sms because I have both hands free, play the PSP if my brother allows me too.... Basically, I’m just there to have fun – I’m there to go for a ride.</p><p></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><o:p> </o:p></p> <p class="MsoNormal"></p><p>As much as I look forward to being able to drive, being a driver is very different from being a passenger. It’s not that the ride won’t be fun (FREEDOM OF MOVEMENT!!!) – it’s just that ‘fun’ isn’t the goal anymore. I’m going to have to think about where I’m going and about the safety of the passengers in the car with me. It may mean I can’t do whatever I want at any moment. Especially since my brother just looked over my shoulder and said, “Yeah jie, sms-ing while driving makes you six times as likely to crash”. Yes ah boi, I know. I’m responsible for getting to the destination. After all, I’m a driver now.</p><p></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><o:p> </o:p></p> <p class="MsoNormal"></p><p>In life, we can choose to have the perspective of a Passenger or of a Driver. Being a driver is all about responsibility, of ownership. Unfortunately, many of us prefer to remain as passengers. When things go wrong, we go tend to point on fingers on everyone but ourselves. Example….</p><p></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><o:p> </o:p></p> <p class="MsoNormal"></p><p>I wasn’t supposed to fail! It’s that darn teacher who failed me on purpose!</p><p></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><o:p> </o:p></p> <p class="MsoNormal"></p><p>If only my parents…</p><p></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><o:p> </o:p></p> <p class="MsoNormal"></p><p>If only my friends did this instead of that…</p><p></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><o:p> </o:p></p> <p class="MsoNormal"></p><p><b><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">I’M NOT SHORT. IT’S JUST THAT EVERYONE’S TALLER THAN ME!</span></b></p><p></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><o:p> </o:p></p> <p class="MsoNormal"></p><p>Ok, I’m joking about the last one. =) </p><p></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><o:p> </o:p></p> <p class="MsoNormal"></p><p>The fact is, how will you see 2010? As a passenger, out to just ‘enjoy yet another year’ and refusing to take responsibility for anything and everything? Or as a driver, to realize that this year is entrusted to us to make the best out of it?</p><p></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><o:p> </o:p></p> <p class="MsoNormal"></p><p>When we start taking responsibility for our life, that’s when we truly start living. When we start realizing that if it has to be, it has to be me, that’s when our life will start to count for something. Let’s not play the Cookie Jar game. You know, where we say, ‘Who stole the cookie from the cookie jar? Who me? Yes you! Couldn’t be! Then who?!’ Exactly, then who?</p><p></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><o:p> </o:p></p> <p class="MsoNormal"></p><p>Take responsibility for our actions.</p><img src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgVMCJ50NRp9seYzozUMLnECuNoNqkN0zkEllimae1bc6o25bulXmsb-iM25p3el7DI9hIoZ6UxraraQq06d4WG-VRQYzYFEYoWN1S-uqVQNOQfLW1r12nq3Ul3bVhi9qTUSZl-TQYB4vX7/s400/monicaclinton1.jpg" style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 336px; height: 400px;" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5421670199040624962" /><p></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><o:p> </o:p></p> <p class="MsoNormal"></p><p>*Few things disturb other people more than someone who fails to take responsibility for their actions. This explains the feeling most Americans had during the Monica Lewinski scandal 1998. President Clinton had told everyone that he had not had sex with<span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span>the White House intern. In August of 1998, he was forced to admit that he had engaged in sexual activity with her. This was enough to trouble some. However, the alarming point came when he gave his five-minute speech, confessing the whole thing. The majority of people were disappointed in the speech. A reporter examined the speech and uncovered why they felt the way they did: </p><p></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><o:p> </o:p></p> <p class="MsoNormal"></p><p>Total number of words he used in the speech: 549 words</p><p></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><o:p> </o:p></p> <p class="MsoNormal"></p><p>Number of words devoted to self-justification: 134 words</p><p></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><o:p> </o:p></p> <p class="MsoNormal"></p><p>Number of words devoted to regret for actions: 4 words</p><p></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><o:p> </o:p></p> <p class="MsoNormal"></p><p>Number of words devoted to attack the prosecutor: 180 words</p><p></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><o:p> </o:p></p> <p class="MsoNormal"></p><p>Number of words devoted to saying it’s time to move on: 137 words </p><p></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><o:p> </o:p></p> <p class="MsoNormal"></p><p>Number of words devoted to apology: <b><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">NONE </span></b></p><p></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><o:p> </o:p></p> <p class="MsoNormal"></p><p>It’s not about the mistakes we make this year, it’s about the integrity we exhibit when we take responsibility for them.</p><p></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><o:p> </o:p></p> <p class="MsoNormal"></p><p>And that’s one of my challenge for the year. Will you make it yours too?</p><p></p><p>*Taken from Habitudes by Tim Elmore</p><p></p><p></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><o:p> </o:p></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><o:p> </o:p></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><o:p> </o:p></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span><span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span></p>Tze Quanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02241253984010210739noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3394304255430657120.post-88335464180883294292009-11-14T10:25:00.007+08:002009-11-14T11:15:27.639+08:00Strength Training<div style="text-align: center;">
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</div><p>So yes, this is the promised post. And although I had a lot of time to think of what to write, I only got a proper idea about an hour ago while cleaning my room. But hey, Archimedes got his epiphany in the bath (Eureka! I got it!) so mine pales in comparison.</p><p>Anyway, I’m standing in the calm of the storm now. It’s one of those rare moments nowadays where I am strangely serene and feeling at peace. Of course, these lucid flashes will promptly end in an hour or so and I shall be reduced to a bumbling mess once again. So, I shall quickly grab this opportunity before I forget what I wanted to write.</p><p>I was flipping through my literature notes just now and was looking back at some of the ‘insights’ I got from the novel, Holes. I think most of those in the same boat as I am are feeling particularly nostalgic towards the beckoning of exams. I know I did, because you never really know what you have until it’s gone.</p><p>Take for example, my brother. I see him, still in Form 2 (actually, it doesn’t really count anymore as the school term is ending) and for him, school is still a long process which seems to have no end. There is next year, and the year after next and then yet another year. And for him, it doesn’t really matter if he didn’t remember everything good about his school because it is not going to end ‘anytime soon’.</p><p>‘Anytime soon’.</p>
<p>That was our catch phrase for years. It never mattered if we didn’t appreciate what we have then because we always had tomorrow. But now, my tomorrows are limited. Yet, I’m not here to reminisce about my years in secondary school. I’d do that, but only when school is really over for me. Now, I’m just thinking about a conversation I had with my dad just a few days before starting Form Four.</p><p>Me: What if I can’t do well? I mean, it’s a totally different ball game; it’s going to be a lot tougher. It’s not PMR. What if I can’t keep up?</p>
<p>Dad: The thing about growth is that it allows expand and do things we feel we cannot do. Like now, you feel like you can’t because you haven’t started! But just as you age, your capacity in life will and should increase. Likewise, your capacity to learn will increase. I’m sure you can do it.</p>
<p>That seemed so long ago but I still remember it. And I’ve got a lot to thank God for in this whole journey. And it seems apt that the ‘insight’ I was reading from Holes was this:</p></span><p><i><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:'trebuchet ms';">E</span></i><i><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:'trebuchet ms';">lya Yelnats was supposed to carry Madame Zeroni up a mountain. However, he wasn’t physically strong to carry her immediately. He had to undergo ‘training’, by carrying a growing pig up the mountain every day. As the pig grew heavier, Elya became stronger.</span></i><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:'trebuchet ms';"></span></p><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:'trebuchet ms';">
</span><p><i><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:'trebuchet ms';">In the same way, Stanley Yelnats, the great-great grandson of Elya Yelnats was supposed to carry Hector Zeroni, the great grandson of Madame Zeroni up Big Thumb, a mountain. However, Stanley too wasn’t strong enough to carry him. He had to undergo training by digging holes every day. The longer he dug, the stronger he became. At last, he was finally strong enough to carry Hector up the mountain.</span></i></p><p><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:'trebuchet ms';"></span></p><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:'trebuchet ms';"><p>In both scenarios, we see that enthusiasm is not enough to get the job done. Effort and hard work is needed as well.</p><p>In the same way, this exam is going to not just going to be an end point for my school life, it’s also a training process for more to come. After all, what doesn't kill us makes us stronger!</p>
</span><p><i><b><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:large;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:'trebuchet ms';">The horse is made ready for the day of battle, but victory rests with the Lord. Proverbs 21:31</span></span></b></i><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:'trebuchet ms';"></span></p><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:'trebuchet ms';"><img src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEihNQocvC7A4ndHWIBWdgISO279139hDUDpp2Qfh8oMpNbftzSLHST5nufx9XH8z-9j1LfurMkhBaWs49laSc_Yru4ftCA9tD0xafGL_5HEm1X4IHN_wryhgWvh7CUWEHQnYbvMJoXmaUd-/s400/No.+1.jpg" style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 250px; height: 250px;" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5403791792564911282" /><p>Ultimately, I’m leaving it in God’s hands. And of course, there’s a note in front of me now saying, ‘Lord, help me remember that nothing is going to happen today that You and I can’t handle’.</p>
<p>All the best to all of us SPM-ers and we’ll see each other at the finish line!</p></span>Tze Quanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02241253984010210739noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3394304255430657120.post-60943080904911946552009-10-24T14:30:00.006+08:002009-10-24T14:46:41.026+08:00This Would Be So Cool at KTM<div style="text-align: center;">
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<p>This isn't a post. It's a line to say, I'm so sorry I haven't posted anything up. Partly because I'm busy doing what every normal seventeen-year-olds-sitting-for-SPM-in-less-than-a-month's-time do. And I'm out of ideas. Wait, no that was yesterday. I have a good idea now (since I squandered an hour on the phone talking to JASMINE yesterday) but I lack motivation to get it done nicely.</p><div><div>
</div><div><p>So, I'll make sure that post comes up before SPM starts and that'll probably be my last one for a long, long time (BECAUSE I FINISH A WHOLE WEEK LATER THAN EVERYONE ELSE).</p></div><div>
</div><div><p>So, don't scold me because my blog's dead! It's not dead... It's... Hibernating. =)</p></div><div>
</div><div><p>But a big thank you for those who constantly remind me to keep writing! I will, I will. =)</p></div><div>
</div><div><p>P.S I just realised this is nowhere close to 'a line'. Well, anyone who know's anything about me know I can't stop at one line. Haha!</p></div></div>Tze Quanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02241253984010210739noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3394304255430657120.post-5634892461034338882009-09-29T23:35:00.011+08:002009-09-30T22:44:35.104+08:00Endless Potential<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjiVjI2LpeZumAJlSBL1fKaB5KHC9ThzfuLGb5-uaAaie4l1gTjq7Fy0SqsEhyphenhyphenoLL_BxncphXG1hmP1UoKu-5jF21KIdKqwskRdSOEAM9zeZgd9R56Lz5dZhrfLEKBVDyV3-n0tK3llibRY/s1600-h/Page13+.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 293px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjiVjI2LpeZumAJlSBL1fKaB5KHC9ThzfuLGb5-uaAaie4l1gTjq7Fy0SqsEhyphenhyphenoLL_BxncphXG1hmP1UoKu-5jF21KIdKqwskRdSOEAM9zeZgd9R56Lz5dZhrfLEKBVDyV3-n0tK3llibRY/s400/Page13+.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5387270843940654066" /></a><div style="text-align: right;"><i>Photo courtesy of Sammy Liew</i></div><div style="text-align: center;">********************</div><div style="text-align: left;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-style: italic; ">“Where are you headed next year?"</span></div><i style="mso-bidi-font-style:normal"><p></p><o:p></o:p></i><p></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height:150%"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style:normal"><span lang="EN-MY"><span style="mso-tab-count:1"> </span></span></i></p><i style="mso-bidi-font-style:normal"><p></p><p>Sigh.</p><p></p><o:p></o:p></i><p></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height:150%"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style:normal"><span lang="EN-MY"><span style="mso-tab-count:1"> </span></span></i></p><i style="mso-bidi-font-style:normal"><p></p><p>When you’re a senior in high school, it’s a given that everyone you come in contact with is going to ask you a variation of the Question within thirty seconds of saying “Hey.” So you’d better have a fast answer.</p><p></p><o:p></o:p></i><p></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: right;margin-left: 1.5in; line-height: 150%; "><i style="mso-bidi-font-style:normal"><span lang="EN-MY"></span></i></p><i style="mso-bidi-font-style:normal"><p style="text-align: right;"></p><p style="text-align: right;">Jessica Darling from Second Helpings by Megan McCafferty</p><p></p><o:p></o:p></i><p></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height:150%"><span lang="EN-MY"><span style="mso-tab-count:1"> </span></span></p><p></p><p>I can identify with this actually, considering that I’m hearing the Question almost everywhere I go. As of yet, I usually just go, ‘National Service (yes, I got selected)’. Sometimes, the questioner laughs and I change the topic. Sometimes however, that’s not enough. I’m still working out the kinks to the perfect less-than-thirty-seconds answer.</p><p></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height:150%"><span lang="EN-MY"><span style="mso-tab-count:1"> </span></span></p><p>But it’s getting increasingly difficult to remain nonchalant about this.</p><p></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height:150%"><span lang="EN-MY"><span style="mso-tab-count:1"> </span><span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span></span></p><p>I realised this yesterday.</p><p></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height:150%"><span lang="EN-MY"><span style="mso-tab-count:1"> </span></span></p><p>Then again, I get most of my epiphanies during English 2.</p><p></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height:150%"><span lang="EN-MY"><span style="mso-tab-count:1"> </span></span></p><p>This is a chronological sequence of events.</p><p></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height:150%"><span lang="EN-MY"><span style="mso-tab-count:1"> </span></span></p><p>I started the paper. I stopped after half an hour and day dreamed for 15 minutes. I continued the paper for another half an hour and day dreamed another 15 minutes. I had ONE HOUR for the literature component so I sat back and day dreamed for yet another 30 minutes. All in all, I wasted one hour out of a two and a half hour paper day dreaming.</p><p></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height:150%"><span lang="EN-MY"><span style="mso-tab-count:1"> </span></span></p><p>But hey, at least I didn’t sleep!</p><p></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height:150%"><span lang="EN-MY"><span style="mso-tab-count:1"> </span></span></p><p>While I was day dreaming, I was doodling loop-d-loops on my spare piece of paper. In pen, mind you. As it is, this was a risky thing because I only had 2 pieces of paper. So if I don’t have enough, I either have to shrink my writing to microscopic size OR whisper conspiratorially to the person behind me for paper.</p><p>But after I handed in my exam paper, I saw the loop-d-loops and they looked like a fancy string of zero’s.</p><p></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height:150%"><span lang="EN-MY"><span style="mso-tab-count:1"> </span></span></p><p>ZERO.</p><img src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiIoaPKCmKImHz3OFy7aVnNNIbGyS0N332eLud0Yk6SZv99v4fhXe_c441NbGqK92M68Ll08NplGzfjBCa0n7G3JBON6g7DtDI83CcwIizE0ZsveI1Cfr8QJSL03uzzOlv6jsnC-3hs6RdG/s400/Add+Zero.gif" style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 311px;" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5386919964790514610" /><p></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height:150%"><span lang="EN-MY"><span style="mso-tab-count:1"> </span></span></p><p>I like the number zero; it holds endless potential to be anything.</p><p></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height:150%"><span lang="EN-MY"><span style="mso-tab-count:1"> </span></span></p><p>Likewise, I’m at the crossroads and there’s just so much I want to do, to achieve. And you have everyone around us saying, nobody can predict the future, nobody can determine the outcome of your potential.</p><p></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height:150%"><span lang="EN-MY"><span style="mso-tab-count:1"> </span></span></p><p>I’m dreaming big – as big as I can. The number ‘Zero’ for me represents just that, dreams and potential.</p><p></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height:150%"><span lang="EN-MY"><span style="mso-tab-count:1"> </span></span></p><p>But the thing about zero is, on its own, it’s pretty much useless. The number zero alone is not even a significant figure. Only when it is paired with something else other than another zero will it be significant.</p><p></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height:150%"><span lang="EN-MY"><span style="mso-tab-count:1"> </span></span></p><p><st1:place st="on"><st1:city st="on"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style:normal">Stanley</i></st1:city></st1:place><i style="mso-bidi-font-style:normal"> watched him write it over and over again.</i></p><i style="mso-bidi-font-style:normal"><o:p></o:p></i><p></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height:150%"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style:normal"><span lang="EN-MY"><span style="mso-tab-count:1"> </span></span></i></p><i style="mso-bidi-font-style:normal"><p>Zero Zero Zero Zero Zero Zero Zero …</p><o:p></o:p></i><p></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height:150%"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style:normal"><span lang="EN-MY"><span style="mso-tab-count:1"> </span></span></i></p><i style="mso-bidi-font-style:normal"><p>In a way, it made him sad. He couldn’t help but think that a hundred times zero was still nothing.</p><o:p></o:p></i><p></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: right;line-height: 150%; "><i style="mso-bidi-font-style:normal"><span lang="EN-MY"><span style="mso-tab-count:8"> </span></span></i></p><i style="mso-bidi-font-style:normal"><p style="text-align: right;">Holes by Louis Sachar</p></i><span lang="EN-MY"> <span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span></span><p></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height:150%"><span lang="EN-MY"><span style="mso-tab-count:1"> </span></span></p><p>As the saying goes, passion without action is merely an emotion. The same here, dreams and potential without effort will remain just that – dreams.</p><p></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height:150%"><span lang="EN-MY"><span style="mso-tab-count:1"> </span></span></p><p>We all have our zero’s, some have whole string of them, some have just one. But then again, are we putting other numbers into them to make that dream a reality?</p><p></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height:150%"><span lang="EN-MY"><span style="mso-tab-count:1"> </span></span></p><p>0000 or 1000?</p><p></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height:150%"><span lang="EN-MY"><span style="mso-tab-count:1"> </span></span></p><p>Big difference.</p><p></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height:150%"><span lang="EN-MY"><span style="mso-tab-count:1"> </span></span></p><p>What are you going to do about your dream?</p><p></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height:150%"><span lang="EN-MY"><span style="mso-tab-count:1"> </span></span></p><p>Don’t let those zero’s remain just that – zero’s.</p> <p></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height:150%"><span lang="EN-MY"></span></p><p>P.S At the same time, this zero reminded me of my walk with God. About how me alone is just a string of zero’s. Only when God comes into the picture as a totally different number, will my life count for something. Well, the number may not be huge or prominent, but it’ll be significant. And that’s what counts.</p> <p></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height:150%"><span lang="EN-MY"></span></p><p>P.S 2 If you were wondering, I managed to fit everything into one page in the exam. =)</p><p></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style:normal"><span lang="EN-MY"><span style="mso-tab-count:1"> </span><o:p></o:p></span></i></p>Tze Quanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02241253984010210739noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3394304255430657120.post-39738980608699200752009-09-12T23:29:00.005+08:002009-09-12T23:57:53.995+08:00Triple P's - Priorities, Principles, Perspective (Part 3)<div><p><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;">But take heart.</span></p></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;">
</span></div><span class="Apple-style-span" style=" ;font-family:Verdana;font-size:12px;"><div></div><div><p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 12px; margin-left: 0px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:georgia;"></span></span></p><p><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;">And read what does happen when you take a stand for what is right</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:small;">.</span></p><p></p></div></span><div><p>In the fourth century there lived an Asiatic monk who had spent most of his life in a remote prayer community, raising vegetables for the cloister kitchen. When he was not tending his garden spot, he was fulfilling his vocation of study and prayer. </p></div><div>
</div><div><p>Then one day, this monk, named Telemachus, felt that God wanted him to go to Rome, the capital of the world - the busiest, wealthiest, biggest city in the world. Telemachus had no idea why he shoud go there, and he was terrified at the thought. But as he prayed, God's directive became clear.</p></div><div>
</div><div><p>How bewildered the little monk must have been as he set out on the long journey, on foot, over dusty roads westward, everything he owned on his back! Why was he going? He didn't know. What would he find there? He had no idea. But obediently, he went.</p></div><div>
</div><div><p>Telemachus arrived in Rome during the holiday festival. You may know that the Roman rulers kept the ghettos in those days by providing free bread and special entertainment called circuses. At the time Telemachus arrived, the city was also bustling with excitement over the recent Roman victory over the Goths. In the midst of this jubilant commotion, the monk looked for clues as to why God had brought him there, for he had no guidance, not even a superior in a religious order to contact.</p></div><div>
</div><div><p>Perhaps, he thought, it is not sheer coincidence that I have arrived at this festival time. Perhaps God has some special role for me to play.</p></div><div>
</div><div><p>So Telemachus let the crowds guide him, and the stream of humanity soon led him into the Coliseum, where the gladiator contests were to be staged. He could hear the cries of the animals in their caves beneath the floor of the great arena and the clamour of the contestants preparing to do battle.</p></div><div>
</div><div><p>The gladiators marched into the arena, saluted the emperor, and shouted, "We who are about to die salute thee." Telemachus shuddered. He had never heard of gladiator games before, but had a premonition of awful violence.</p></div><div>
</div><div><p>The crowd had come to cheer man who, for no reason other than amusement, would murder each other. Human lives were offered for entertainment. As the monk realized what was going to happen, he realized he could not sit still and watch such savagery. Neither could he leave and forget. He jumped to the top of the perimeter wall and cried, "In the name of Christ, forbear! Stop!"</p></div><div>
</div><div><p>The fighting began, of course. No one paid the slightest heed to the puny voice. So Telemachus pattered down the stone steps and leapt onto the sandy floor of the arena. He made a comic figure - a scrawny man in a monk's habit dashing back and forth between muscular, armed athletes. One gladiator sent him sprawling with a blow from his shield, directing him back to his seat. It was a rough gesture, though almost a kind one. The crowd roared.</p></div><div>
</div><div><p>But Telemachus refused to stop. He rushed into the way of those trying to fight, shouting again, "In the name of Christ, forbear!" The crowd began laughing and cheer him on, perhaps thinking him part of the entertainment.</p></div><div>
</div><div><p>Then his movement blocked the vision of one of the contestants; the gladiator saw a blow coming just in time. Furious now, the crowd began to cry for the interloper's blood. They started burying him under a hailstone of projectiles and stones.</p></div><div>
</div><div><p>"Run him through!" they screamed.</p></div><div>
</div><div><p>The gladiator he had blocked raised his sword and with a flash of steel struck Telemachus, slashing down across his chest and into his stomach. The little monk gasped once more, "In the name of Christ, forbear."</p></div><div>
</div><div><p>Then a strange thing occured. As the two gladiators and the crowd focused on the still form on the suddenly crimson sand, the arena fell deathly quiet. In the silence, someone in the top tier got up and walked out. Another followed. All over the arena, spectators began to leave, until the huge stadium was emptied.</p></div><div>
</div><div><p>There were other forces at work, of course, but that innocent figure lying in the pool of blood crystallized the opposition, and that was the last gladiatorial contest in the Roman Coliseum. Never again did men kill each other for the crowds' entertainment in the Roman arena.*</p></div><div>
</div><div><p>There are several versions to this story but the fact remains that Telemachus stood by his convictions and change ensured.</p></div><div>
</div><div><p>So now, how will you respond? Will you say, "Good story, but no big deal"? Or will you consider, what shall you live by?</p></div><div>
</div><div><p>It's your call now.</p></div><div>
</div><div><p>P.S And for us who know, it is not just about What Will Jesus Do but What Will You Do about What Will Jesus Do? I know, it's a mouthful and it won't into a wristband nicely. However, that's a more pertinent question to ask, isn't it?</p> </div><div>*Taken from No Compromise, Day 49.</div>Tze Quanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02241253984010210739noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3394304255430657120.post-81804906816874769622009-09-12T22:20:00.002+08:002009-09-12T23:28:47.194+08:00Triple P's - Priorities, Principles, Perspective (Part 2)<div><p> I've always liked war stories. No, I'm not a sadist but it's often interesting to see how people react in times of extreme opposition. And I'm particularly interested in the Japanese involvement during World War II. So anyway, I was just flipping through my books and I saw this excerpt which caught my attention.</p></div><div>
</div><div><p>'I love the story of the kamikaze pilot, who flew in World War II for the Japanese air force. He was interview by a newspaper reporter after returning from his fiftieth mission. The reporter asked the pilot if he wasn't a contradiction in terms. How can someone be a kamikaze pilot -whose mission is to fly to military bases and give up his life in the process - and still be alive after fifty missions?</p></div><div>
</div><div><p> "Well, it's like this", the pilot responded. "I was very involved. Not very committed, but very involved." '</p> </div><div>
</div><div><p>That's the funny thing about us. We want the best of everything and yet, none of the strings attached. We want to eat the biggest bar of chocolate but we don't want to strive to shed the pounds after that. We want to have Jessica Alba's/(guys you fill in the blanks) body but we don't want to get up from the couch with our chips. We want money but not the work. We want the results without the studying. We want instant gratification but none of the responsibility.</p></div><div>
</div><div><p>We want to commit to nothing, but yet complain when we say our lives feel meaningless!</p></div><div>
</div><div><p>But here's the thing. In the words of Martin Luther King Jr., 'If you haven't found something worth dying for, you aren't fit to be living'.</p></div><div>
</div><div><p>What are your principles in life? No, I'm not talking about your beliefs. I'm talking about your convictions. What the difference?</p></div><div>
</div><div><p>Belief is what you hold on to but conviction is what holds on to you.</p></div><div>
</div><div><p>It's the driving force behind your life. It's the reason for all your priorities you place. Your beliefs get you from one pit stop to another pit stop in life but your conviction is the fuel which drives the car through the journey.</p></div><div>
</div><div><p>And guess what? Your convictions, your principles (or the lack of them) not only impact you, but others as well.</p></div><div>
</div><div><p>Years ago, a boy grew up in a Jewish home, watching everything his father did. Evidently, his dad didn't realize the influence he had. They attended a synagogue until their family moved to another city and there was no synagogue nearby. Dad decided to just switch religious beliefs. He admitted it was only a way of meeting business contacts anyway. This father's failure to live by values outside of his own benefit led his son to question morality, ethics and his faith. As the boy grew, he believed religion was a 'crutch' for the masses. He wrote that money was behind anything meaningful in the world.</p> </div><div>
</div><div><p>His name?</p></div><div>
</div><div><p> Karl Marx and he led millions of people into a destructive belief system during the 20th century.</p></div><div>
</div><div><p>Such a pity his father didn't have his own personal convictions about what to live for. As a result, his priorities were out of order and his actions inadvertedly caused a chain reaction. A chain reaction whose consequences we still see until today.</p></div><div>
</div><div><p>But take heart.</p></div><div>
</div><div><p>And read what does happen when you take a stand for what is right.</p></div>Tze Quanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02241253984010210739noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3394304255430657120.post-19006272914364596792009-08-25T09:15:00.003+08:002009-08-25T09:24:24.897+08:00One word. Wow.<p>I don't normally post up videos but this seriously blew my mind when I saw it. But I'll just let the video do the talking this time. =)</p>
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<p>I love my flute so much more now. </p>
<p>Thanks Felix!</p>Tze Quanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02241253984010210739noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3394304255430657120.post-57148842481293240852009-08-23T20:35:00.006+08:002009-08-23T20:47:25.202+08:00Triple P's - Priorities, Principles, Perspective (Part 1)<span style="font-family:arial;"><p>If you know me well, you would have realised that I was walking around a tad bit more hyper than I normally am with a reference book attached to some part of my body. And if you put two and two together, you get this – <strong>TRIALS</strong>.</p> <div><div>
<p>Yes, I have just finished trials and now can quickly grab the opportunity to update this blog. It’s not dead! And thank you for all those who pop in and remind me time and time to ‘UPDATE WOMAN, UPDATE’.</p>
<p>However, it’s rather difficult to update as for some reason, I was out of ideas. And if you know me, I don’t write for the sake of writing. When I have nothing to say, I rather not say anything at all.</p>
<p>This is where exams come in handy. I get epiphanies during English exams. ALWAYS.
So while I was writing a less-elaborate-compared-to-my-mid-year-paper essay about The Pearl, I realised that the year is rushing by a lot faster than I thought. I’ve been moving just so fast that I didn’t realise time was moving just as fast as I was – if not more. It’s already approaching the end of August and my compulsory school life has almost reached a full circle.</p>
<p>This I grasped as I sat in my seat listening to who was going to be the next Head Prefect.</p>
<p>This I grasped as I listen to my debate teacher talk about training the next team. This I grasped when I stepped down from CF.</p>
<p>This I grasped when I filled in the form for National Service.</p>
<p>Life as I know it is changing quickly. In fact, the only thing constant about it is
that it is ever changing. But I realised that there are 3 things that we bring with us through all our seasons and passages of time.</p>
<p>Our Priorities.</p>
<p>Our Principles.</p>
<p>Our Perspective.</p>
<p>But the one which hit me during exams was this – Priorities. Partly that was also because I remembered this story I read in a book. (I love stories. Any story worth telling once is worth telling twice).</p><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 254px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 293px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5373138784393957778" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiEBOzL0Hyun3H2qroQXaK4d5nI1BLggeH2vweaCNtPY4G6jlWcrEXW49LH2PxPghoMzRQ6l-htoV1ndlWyk83zmIDcFwwoDTPTWz7xcGIsfhcHVOOacDlaj-lw81g7NCksv9JjBtlJr4JK/s400/big-rocks-in-jar.jpg" />
<p>One day, an expert on time management was speaking to a group of business students. To drive home a point, this expert used an illustration I’m sure those students will never forget. As this man stood in front of the group of high-powered overachievers, he said, “Okay, time for a quiz.” Then he pulled out a one-gallon, wide-mouthed Mason jar and set it on a table in front of him. Then he produced about a dozen fist-sized rocks and carefully placed them, one at a time, into the jar. When the jar was filled to the top and no more rocks would fit inside, he asked, “Is this jar full?” Everyone in the class said, “Yes.” Then he said, “Really?” He reached under the table and pulled out a bucket of gravel. Then he dumped some gravel in and shook the jar causing pieces of gravel in and shook the jar causing pieces of gravel to work themselves down into the spaces between the big rocks. Then he smiled and asked the group once more, “Is the jar full?” By this time the class was onto him. “Probably not,” one of them answered. “Good!” he replied. And he reached under the table and brought out a bucket of sand. He started dumping the sand in and it went into all the spaces left between the rocks and the gravel. Once more he asked the question, “Is this jar full?”</p>
<p>“No!” the class shouted. Once again he said, “Good!” Then he grabbed a pitcher of water and began to pour it in until the jar was full to the brim. Then he looked up at the class and asked, “What is the point of this illustration?” One eager beaver raised his hand and said, “The point is, no matter how full your schedule is, if you try really hard, you can always fit some more things into it!” “No,” the speaker replied, “that’s not the point. The truth this illustration teaches us is that if we don’t put the big rocks in first, we’ll never get them in at all!”</p>
<p>How apt this analogy is. What are some of our ‘big rocks’? What are the things we know are important but keep putting it off? And in time find it so hard to fit it into our schedules?</p>
<p>I’ve many ‘big rocks’ in my life. Time to spend with God, time to spend with my family, time for my studies…. But sometimes, things go out of hand and before I know it, I find myself busy but achieving nothing. And because of that, we end up experiencing burn outs, when we’re so tired of doing because it seems like nothing is being done!</p><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 359px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 263px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5373139095465578642" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjdrt9STfCT81p8iSDdFHSM4MLugckhIRcVHTTvcDskha92VQL8e1xU4XSwMRpBncv5cdeLmfNx9vnnx6njYN9RhD0bdONNz8RW1UecweXHBt-__cLImJykrGjodN9NJzzcvlVVXGuSP3Jn/s400/boris1.jpg" />
<p>You see, a lion tamer was once asked which “tool” he would keep if he only can have one – his whip or his stool? He picked the stool. Now, if you’re like me, you would be confused. I mean, logically the only thing which can defend me would probably be the whip. Sacrifice my last line of defence? Are you kidding me?! So yes, this was puzzling until he explained why. The stool actually paralyzes the lion. When it is waved in front of him, the beast is unable to focus. The four separate legs create four separate focal points. The lion doesn’t know which leg to focus on and because he can’t decide, he can’t attack. He’s immobilized.</p>
<p>Interesting.</p>
<p>Sounds familiar?</p>
<p>I guess when it boils down to it; we have to focus our priorities and what truly matters. I know what I need to put in first, do you? And more importantly, are you putting it as your main priority?</p>
<p><span style="font-size:130%;"><span style="font-size:100%;">After all,</span> <em><strong>it’s not about prioritizing out schedule – but rather, scheduling our priorities.</p></strong></em></span><p></p></div></div></span>Tze Quanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02241253984010210739noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3394304255430657120.post-19321079912079577482009-08-22T23:51:00.002+08:002009-08-22T23:54:41.190+08:00Nicole OWNS this post!!!!!<div style="text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: 23px; ">I'M WRITING RUBBISH NOW <span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-style: italic;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(153, 51, 153);">simply</span></span> BECAUSE I CAN. xP</span>
</div><div style="text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'trebuchet ms';">
</span></div><div style="text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'trebuchet ms';">Tze is wonderfully amazingly Godly and Gorgeous. Double Gs.</span></div><div style="text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'trebuchet ms';">
</span></div><div style="text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'trebuchet ms';">GUYS, the ONE may be here!! so drop a comment. =)</span></div><div>
</div>Tze Quanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02241253984010210739noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3394304255430657120.post-11613043190065108232009-08-22T23:44:00.002+08:002009-08-22T23:47:37.406+08:00Just Checking In</p>Ok, this is just a line to say no, I didn't abandon my blog. I promise, promise, promise I'm updating it tomorrow. Partly because I'm not actually at home and my parents will be coming to pick me up anytime now. </p><div>
</div><div><p>So if you see this, you're bearing witness and KEEPING ME ACCOUNTABLE.</p></div><div>
</div><div><p>Yes, Sarah... I'm talking bout you... =) </p></div>Tze Quanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02241253984010210739noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3394304255430657120.post-36546691259353442442009-07-17T12:45:00.007+08:002009-07-17T21:58:39.002+08:00The Retiring Prefect Makes Peace<p>You know a prefect is going to retire when:</p>
<p>1. The once-bright-green uniform has faded so much it resembles the white school shirt.</p>
<p>2. The once-black shoes have turned dual tone. The canvas part is now grey and the PVC part still remains as black as ever.</p>
<p>3. The name tag is scratched and BROKEN. </p>
<p>4. The blazer worn with the skirt/pants are dual tone. (Reason being the blazer is washed less frequently than the skirt/pants. Ok well, for MOST prefects.) </p>
<p>5. The markings on the tie have faded (Again, only if the tie is actually washed).</p>
<p>6. The shoes have holes which lets water in during rainy days.</p><p> 7. The skirt/pants tore. </p>
<p>AND... </p>
<p>8. The campaigning season for the incoming board is here.</p>
<p>So this is a little shoutout for those who will be campaigning.</p>
<p>It's going to be difficult with disappointments on the way but hey, what doesn't kill you only serves to make you stronger. And this will definitely grow you as a person if you wish to learn from experience. It's going to be difficult, no doubt, but enjoy the ride!</p>
<p>Enjoy the speeches, knowing that you'll probably only get this chance to speak to such a wide audience (and they'll actually listen).</p>
<p>Enjoy the campaigning, because it's not everyday you get to see your 'merchandise' on everybody's pencil cases. </p>
<p>Enjoy the encouraging words you'll receive, because you'll not be able to hear as many any time else in the year. </p>
<p>Enjoy even the criticisms you'll receive, because you'll not get the opportunity to listen to so many honest opinions about yourself. </p>
<strong><em><span style="font-size:130%;"><p>Enjoy the process, regardless the outcome.</p></span></em></strong>
<strong><em><span style="font-size:130%;"></span></em></strong>
<p>I'm very proud of all of you, for daring to stand in front of the school and offer yourself to serve. Check your motives first and make sure that you're running to be the Head Prefect for the right reasons. With all that said, run the race with full perseverance, so that at the end of the day, you can still stand tall and know that you've done your very best. I'm supporting each one of you, all the way. </p>
<p>With lots of love,</p>
<p>Tze Quan </p>Tze Quanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02241253984010210739noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3394304255430657120.post-85212684072748653972009-07-10T21:51:00.000+08:002009-07-10T21:52:23.592+08:00Bite the Bullet!!!<p>True, I don’t normally blog about current events (correction, I don’t) mainly because I lived like a ‘katak bawah tempurung’ and never, ever opened the newspaper. However, I’ve been making conscious effort to do so after the recent debate competition. </p>
<p>And boy, oh boy am I mad. </p>
<p>After 6 years of teaching Maths and Science in English, they are reverting to Bahasa Melayu again. Yes, after just 6 short years, they decided that the teaching of Maths and Science was better conducted using the medium Bahasa Melayu. Not only that, while I was reading today’s paper just before going for my flute exam, I came across the most ludicrous statement. </p>
<p>In the Star paper 10/7/09, Najib says that ‘Increasing the time allocated to teaching English. Introducing English literature and language laboratories, among others, would be a better method in boosting proficiency in the language than using it to teach Mathematics and Science’. </p>
<p>Now, the dubious logic behind this presents two flaws. First, English lessons as it is merely serve as ‘homework-completion’ times and not many teachers actually teach English in a way that is interesting and more importantly, INFORMATIVE. Classes can end up being a drag. Imagine if they increase lesson times! I too don’t understand what our Prime Minister meant by ‘introducing English literature’. English Literature is already introduced into the SPM line-up of subjects. (I would know – I’m taking that subject). Not to mention the literature component of PMR and SPM English. Never mind the fact that literature component is a laughing stock (I think I just had an idea on another blog post). Fine, if we want to ‘introduce English literature’, can they assure us that the standard of English will be heightened? That it won’t be lowered just to enable passes? Let’s not talk about being on par with countries overseas, let’s just think about raising the dismal standard of Malaysian English. </p>
<p>Second, most of the English scientific terms are reused in Bahasa Melayu anyway! As someone told me before, ‘I don’t need to have a wide vocabulary in Bahasa Melayu to score in my ‘karangan’. I just need a good vocabulary in English’. Too that, I have to agree. Encyclopedias, journals, researches, they are all written in English. By switching to BM, students will have to double work during projects. Not only do they have to look up information, they have to translate it as well. And after learning for 11 years in BM, they are expected to revert back to English in time for Form 6. Doesn’t the government see how ridiculous their decision is? </p>
<p>No, they say that, ‘The lack of proficiency in English among the teachers had resulted in ineffective learning among students.’ (Education director-general Tan Sri Alimuddin Mohd Dom). Knowing that is the case, why are the students being penalized? Shouldn’t steps be taken to increase proficiency among TEACHERS? Or, is reverting to BM an easy way out? </p>
<p>To that, I say, bite the bullet. </p>
<p>We’re going to have to bite the bullet and sweat it out. We want progress, there is a price. Why switch after just 6 years? It doesn’t take a genius to know that it would take a lot more time to accurately gauge the successfulness of a decision. Why, it hasn’t even touched a decade! True, it may be difficult but as the MALAY proverb goes, ‘Berakit-rakit ke hulu, berenang-renang ke tepian; bersusah-susah dahulu, bersenang-senang kemudian’. You say Bahasa Malaysia should be upholded, well, uphold your very own proverbs then.</p>
<p>It’s easy for the government of today to make this decision because the people who made the decision won’t be around to see its effects. It’s going to be the future generation who will see it. And this is why I am frustrated and disappointed. We always take 2 steps forwards and 5 steps backwards.</p>
<p>For our future generation, for progress…</p>
<p>BITE THE BULLET FOR CRYING OUT LOUD.</p>
<p>P.S Note to self, don’t read the papers during a stressful situation i.e. just before flute exam. The next time, I’ll end up with a popped blood vessel. </p>Tze Quanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02241253984010210739noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3394304255430657120.post-4969802762624950652009-06-26T20:38:00.002+08:002009-06-26T20:45:26.264+08:00Espionage<div align="left"> <p>When I entered the room, I thought he would be very angry with me. But to my surprise, he beckoned me forward with a smile. He opened his arms wide and hesitantly, I went to him. I felt his warmth envelope me and relaxed a little in his embrace.</p>
<p>“Don’t you hate me?” I mumbled into his shirt.</p>
<p>The inevitable reply came.</p>
<p>“Absolutely”</p>
<p>I heard the gun click at my temple.</p>
</div><div align="center"><p>**********</p></div><div align="left">
<p>I’m known by many names. It all depends on what my assignment is. For now, you can call me Harriet. I’m a pharmacist by day. I live in a modest condo with a good view of the city. I have a pet dog that has been with me for many years. But that does not explain why there is a gun to my head now.</p>
<p>Let me get to the point then.</p>
<p>I am an assassin.</p>
<p>Ever since I can remember, I have been trained to kill – swift and without a mess. Of course, I don’t come cheap. I auction my services to the highest bidder. And let me tell you, life is sweet for the likes of me. After all, money is power and with money, you can do anything.</p>
<p>Many would remember their first toy as a doll, a brightly coloured ball, a mini car… Mine was a handgun. Others get pats on the head for getting 5 stars for homework. I get pats for hitting the bulls-eye 5 times in a row. Girls grow up learning how to use makeup to enhance their beauty. I learned how to morph into anyone I like. Teenagers learn to lie from their parents. I lived a lie from the day I completed my first assignment.</p>
<p>Let’s get this straight. I don’t like what I do. It gets old after years of doing what I do. Try as I might, I just can’t seem to take pleasure at the number of successful missions I’ve accomplished. And there’s a reason why I am one of the highest paid in the field. The sense of purpose vanishes in time. I get a call, I carry it out, and I wait for the next call. I wanted to get out of this vicious cycle and put a halt to this downward spiral of my life.</p>
<p>Of course, this didn’t just happen overnight. Somewhere along the line, I dedicated my life to God and knew in my heart that I can’t continue to do what I’ve been doing. I realised I’ve been blind all this while to life – living it like it should be. All this while I’ve never dared to admit to my self that what I was doing was cold-blooded murder. I couldn’t, you understand? Doing so would make it seem personal – that I was robbing someone’s husband, someone’s wife, someone’s parent, someone’s child. In my line of work, there’s no such thing as emotions. You rub sentimentalities out of you because you need to remain objective – even in the very face of death. You can’t afford a single moment of hesitation because that will decide who walks away the victor.</p>
<p>However, just because you want to quit doesn’t necessarily mean you can. First, I was already involved with the man who regularly hires me. This was my first mistake because I needed to be neutral – free from any emotional holds. He was a dangerous man and being the reckless fool I was I fell for his charm hook, line and sinker. Telling him I had enough was equivalent to committing hara-kiri.</p>
<p>At the same time, many people were circulating rumours that I had a daughter. And that she was dying by the seconds with leukaemia. And that I would do whatever it takes to keep her with me. Even if it means to kill for the money. As to the question of whether or not I really had given birth to a daughter, I’d certainly be reluctant to talk too much about her, for fear that her identity might become publicly known. It would be in no one’s best interest for such a thing to happen. The best course, I feel, is for me to say nothing at all, especially when I’m still alive; I’m sure you will understand.</p>
<p>So I continued living my lie – doing what my heart screamed was wrong, wrong, wrong. Every person I killed now weighed heavily on my conscience. I was convicted, God kept tugging at my heartstring to stop. It went on and on until it came to the point where I knew I must take a stand.</p>
<p>The day came where the reason for doing what I did broke.</p>
<p>And I did the unforgivable – I let my target live.</p>
<p>It was utter chaos. I was tracking down this man for months and when I finally found him, he was in a room. Not alone, no. If he was, I would have been able to muster the guts to finish the job. No, he was playing with his daughter – laughing together as she hugged him tight. Tears welled up and I fled.</p>
<p>Naturally, my man found out. How he found out I will never know. And he was livid. The target I allowed to walk free was about to spill highly classified secrets to the government about my man. He was as good as dead.</p>
<p>I walked into my condo knowing full well that I may not leave alive.</p></div><div align="center">
<p>**********</p></div><div align="left">
<p>When I entered the room, I thought he would be very angry with me. But to my surprise, he beckoned me forward with a smile. He opened his arms wide and hesitantly, I went to him. I felt his warmth envelope me and relaxed a little in his embrace.</p>
<p>“Don’t you hate me?” I mumbled into his shirt.</p>
<p>The inevitable reply came.</p>
<p>“Absolutely”</p>
<p>I heard the gun click at my temple.</p>
</div><div align="center"><p>**********</p></div><div align="left">
<em> <p>Mama!!!</p>
<p>Oh my sweet child! You’re here! And you look beautiful!</p>
<p>I’ve been waiting for you mama…</p>
<p>And so have I my dear girl, so have I.</p></em></div><div align="center">
<p>**********</p></div><div align="left">
<p>When I entered heaven, I thought He would be very angry with me. But to my surprise, He beckoned me forward with a smile. He opened His arms wide and hesitantly, I went to Him. I felt His warmth envelope me and relaxed a little in His embrace.</p>
<p>“Do you still love me?” I mumbled through my tears.</p>
<p>The inevitable reply came.</p>
<p>“Absolutely”</p></div>Tze Quanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02241253984010210739noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3394304255430657120.post-30394753064383816822009-06-14T18:08:00.002+08:002009-06-14T18:11:00.211+08:00Technology in Communication - Boon or Blessing?<p>Just a mini break from the whole thing about why left-handers die early not because I don’t have enough woes (I do, trust me, I just got back from a wedding where there were 3 left-handers in one table) but because… I got tired of the subject.</p>
<p>Don’t stone me! At least I’m being honest.</p>
<p>No worries, I’ll finish it, just not now and not immediately.</p>
<p>Anyway, I just finished reading another Jessica Darling book about an hour ago. (YES, THE BOOK I BLEW 50 BUCKS ON). Reading it reminded of something she wrote about technology.</p>
<p>‘You noted how no advance in technology can be a substitute for real interpersonal interaction. I was particularly touched by your admission that being able to get in touch with your long-distance friend twenty-four hours a day is sometimes more of a burden than a blessing because it just makes you wish she were here.’ – Sloppy Firsts, Megan Mccafferty</p>
<p>I hold technology guilty for the break-down of many of the basic living skills. Take for example, cooking. With so many instant dinner-in-a-bag packages, microwave food, INSTANT noodles, we find ourselves pampered and seduced by the mess-free, hassle-free, stress-free food sources. Of course, I really shouldn’t touch on cooking because that’s number 13950897203 on my post-SPM to-do list – TO LEARN HOW TO COOK.</p>
<p>But I digress.</p>
<p>I understand the need of technology for development, for progress. However, I can’t help but notice that it’s due to technology, we’re losing one of the most vital skill ever – face-to-face communication. Like when I was at the wedding lunch, I was listening to one of the guests telling a love story – that is tragic at its best and pathetic at its worst.</p>
<p>I shall briefly summarise.</p>
<p>Boy meets girl through Skype. The communication was mainly done via Skype. Boy and girl fell in love. The courtship was mainly done via Skype. Boy and girl get married after just a few months. Boy and girl are now stuck in unhappy marriage.</p>
<p>Well, I’m sorry but that is as romantic as rabbit droppings.</p>
<p>Unfortunately, that is what’s happening now. We’re losing the ability to carry out a meaningful conversation face to face. We prefer to hide behind emails, online messaging, SMSes, c-boxes spamming, facebook, Twitter, etc.</p>
<p>And you know you’ve got it bad when someone tells a joke and you say, ‘LOL.’</p>
<p>I’m not discrediting technology as a means of communication but sometimes I fear we have relied on it too much that we forget the person talking to actually have a face with his/her own personality and not just a username like ‘CookieMonster59’.</p>
<p>It’s true it’s difficult to imagine a world without the technology as we know it. At times, I do appreciate technology because in some cases, a little contact is better than no contact at all. To that I say, embrace technology but at the same time, remember that technology is a poor substitute to a face-to-face communication.</p>
<p>So keep your conversational skills, they’re a lot more important than the ability to type like a bullet train on MSN.</p>Tze Quanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02241253984010210739noreply@blogger.com0